Which anal toys are best to help one prepare for the experience?
Originally Posted by Alli
I could be horribly wrong, but the way you ask that makes me think you haven't done much anal. I would not suggest a P4P situation to be even close to your first ten times.
Find a guy who cares primarily about making the experience good for you. Getting a lady to actually like anal is a process that starts off with a lot of sessions with just increasing amounts of using fingers during DATY. Then more sessions with DATO added. Finally, multiple sessions where DATY is used to the edge of orgasm before switching to the main act where only the lady has control of movement. Using a vibrator on your clit the whole time helps a lot also. And above all, lube. When you think you have put on enough, then double it.
All the above has to be done before some dumbass boyfriend tries it dry or with just spit during some booze fueled hook up. If that has already occurred, it takes more effort than its worth.