Definitely the natural look. Personally, I just wear bronzer, mascara and clear lip gloss in session. Minus the mascara in RL Also, I think virgin hair is beautiful on a woman, not dyed.
I have always heard men in my personal life say no to make-up. I like somewhere in the middle--- a little make-up, but not garish looking. I've seen lots of men on the boards say that the made up look is part of the their fantasy. I guess it goes both ways, somewhere in the middle might please both. lol
It depends on the type of make up: tinted primer, pore refiner, loose powder are all you need to enhance what's already there and it doesn't look like makeup at all. I can't think of any woman who doesnt look better with a light touch of mascara and cherry chapstick.