Speaking of hair (since Shayla is rocking the blonde thing)

First of all, Shayla . I can't wait to see your new look...but, I am not a guy :-(
Secondly, I think I scared a gentleman today as he was expecting 'the short blonde-haired Aphrodite ' and got the newer version of 'the long and very curly brunette Aphrodite '. He recovered but I realized I should have warned him.

So...after wearing my short hair for years...I am bored with it and i accept that it isn't thick and full. Bugger. I have decided to change things up and change it based on MY mood.

Hopefully you guys have a sense of humor and can stand the idea of not grabbing a handful lest we both say, "Oops!"

A lot of women wear weaves and wigs and comfortably announce, 'no touching the hair'...
So, how important is being able to grab and pull? Do you like the idea of variety in a woman's look?

FYI since I don't show face pics...think Rene Russo's 80's-90's curly do/Bernadette Peters and uhhh, that actress on geez...that cop show in NY...ok brain fart...
Consider this an inquiry/public service announcement

Ta!

Awesome Russo was hot and I agree I got board and well I am experimenting, and its nice for our selves to do something different and fun. And thanks if I could ever get a time and things set up for pictures that would be awesome I am not good at organzing or keeping up with time at all, have fun girl and I bet youll look great with anyhting

A lot of women wear weaves and wigs and comfortably announce, 'no touching the hair'...
So, how important is being able to grab and pull? Do you like the idea of variety in a woman's look?
Originally Posted by Aphrodite

Restrictions on something that might be considered within the usual area of rules of engagement in the playing field are a mood killer. It would distract me to know, don't grab her hair ... not that I do that a lot, just the thought of not doing it....

variety: isn't that why we are here?

A lot of women wear weaves and wigs and comfortably announce, 'no touching the hair'...
So, how important is being able to grab and pull? Do you like the idea of variety in a woman's look?
Originally Posted by Aphrodite

Grabbing and pulling hair is something that I'd have to be sure you are ok with before I'd do, regardless of whether your hair is natural or not. But if I know you are into it ...

As for variety in hair style or color, well, you are women, that just kinda comes with the territory, doesn't it?

I personally love when a lady changes her hair . Use wigs dye whatever you want. Hopefully people respect the don't touch the hair policy. Now I have been doing dye jobs and cutting hair for 16 years. Not for pay just yo I want blue and red liberty spikes and I say two colors bring the dye and a 6 pack of mickeys. But I always have been willing to work for beer. Cheap beer at that.

Johnny - you are the guy I would have made out with at a Dead Kennedy's show or the circle jerks...I was legal and you would have been asking for a hit off of my beer...
Even then, I had my price and it would have been a kiss for every sip :-). Ahhh such innocent days :-)

I still make out for beer.

Wow...good topic....I'm not into the hair pulling thing so I have to say that changing up the hair is a real turn on for me....makes it seem like your cheating on your provider with a new girl....or something like that. Geez....what the heck am I saying...I must be doing this for too long......

Well, Johnny...I found three warm coronas in the back of my car *grin*

Gateswarm - hmmm, you could have multiple women in one night, if you play your cards right *wink*

I love the creativity of being able to express different moods and dimensions of my personality...life is too short to be 'stodgy' and afraid of what others think.

A

Multiple women in one night.....I'M IN..... :-)

Ladies, please warn me in advance if you do not wish your hair touched, played with, pulled, etc. Once upon a time I was in a social setting and had run my hand up a certain ladies neck into her hair. We had been VERY friendly up to that point. She jumped off my lap and started berating me for touching her hair and let me know that she had extensions. Needless to say, that quickly cooled a very promising 'relationship'.
I am not going to apologize for being a man and not knowing or understanding some things and hair extensions are one of them.
I am a very tactile creature and enjoy touching. I enjoy running my hands through a ladies hair but am not necessarily into pulling, etc....

Just my $.02 worth!

G

along the same lines... I think men seem to prefer long loose hair. I answer the door with hair down for a good first impression. but when I do get down to business, it gets in the way and I usually tie it back. Men, do u prefer hair loose like I think you do? does a pony tail greeting you at the door turn you off? how important is long loose flowing hair for you and does having hair up from the beginning turn u off initially? It seems long flowing hair is sexy and feminizes and softens the first impression and I have decided that is important. I would leave it down the whole time if he asked me to of course. but I do resort to the damn pony tail usually after a while. what do y'all think?

Sue, once I made the decision to meet a Lady, the hair is completely secondary, well not even that high on the list. Yes hair is important, any hair, I think a bald lady greeting would get my attention for a minute though, but hey, I am NOT there for the hair.

Hair in the way: You know one of the most stimulating times I had was when the hair was "in the way" as you call it. It drove me NUTS and to new heights, granted it was curly hair (which also drives me NUTS).
But if it indeed gets in the way for her or him, then by all means tie it back. We wouldn't want your hair keeping you from doing what you do best :-)

G, I agree, a warning is good !!

But still expect all things that are not permanently attached to come off in a good and heated session ....

I love getting hair pulled and all but if I decide to wear a wig (can only dye hair so much) I will not be scared to say dont touch my hair !!!! lol