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What if a wife finds out about the hubby's hobbying, can she subponea the provider against her hubby?

If you were arrested or cited while with or in the company of her husband, yes, probably . . . otherwise, I highly doubt it would be worth the effort . . . However, if there is compelling evidence of a relationship between you and the husband that can be established to satisfy the court (business, friendship, social, etc.) and she's divorcing him (and she has the money, time and inclination), yeah, it can happen. If it does, invoke your right against self-incrimination and don't say a word unless you are directed to answer by your own counsel (because, if you're subpoenaed, you will want to have your own lawyer).

Thanks, I don't think much will become of it, but it does ease my mind a bit. There is no ongoing relationship between me and the hubby in question, although I have seen him a 3 times over 2 years.
Mine is probably not the only number she may have found.
Thanks for the reply!
Oh, he is NOT a member of this site (that I am aware of), thats a relief also!

Well, they'll have to FIND you to subpoena you in any event.

worst case scenario is they text you for a session and only use text for communicating and send you to some undercover cops.. or they turn your information over to some UC's so screen screen screen

In Texas, a lawyer or a judge can subpoena anyone to appear in court for any reason. A non-lawyer can fill out an application and pay a fee and the judge will issue a subpoena. Whether the target of the subpoena can be served with the subpoena, whether the subpoena results in relevant testimony, whether the subpoena may be attacked because it doesn't comply with the rules regarding form -- these are all secondary questions determined by the specific facts of the specific case, and it would be unwise to make generalizations.

Whether the target of the subpoena can be served with the subpoena, whether the subpoena results in relevant testimony, whether the subpoena may be attacked because it doesn't comply with the rules regarding form -- these are all secondary questions determined by the specific facts of the specific case, and it would be unwise to make generalizations. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

You're right, I did kind of roll these into a generalization of saying it "might not be worth the effort". Here in KS the procedures are a bit different for most civil matters, I did not qualify that I was speaking from experiences here. For the most part, these questions do always seem to be from TX or NOLA . . . which kind of makes my answering even less relevant - LOL

Oh yeah, Louisiana in general is a world unto itself. It would take a pea pod pixie to find info on my RL info (I HOPE!). Thanks, she is pissed, rightfully so, and blew up at me. But she has the crosshairs pointed in the wrong direction!

Thanks again for your thoughts.

imo, only if she (or her attorney) can determine your real world identity.

Well, they'll have to FIND you to subpoena you in any event. Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

HA HA! I was thinking the same thing. I read about all the hassle it is to communicate with so many of these girls when I trying to spend money, I think the sheriff's department might have a harder untime unless the address on file with their PO is current.



Sorry. I just couldn't resist. been watching to much John Stewart.....

A snowballs chance in hell would have better luck...........

I am in Louisiana and we are a world unto ourselves. The Napoleonic Civil Code instead of common law. I know some other states have a hybrid form of a civil code. Having studied both civil and common law, Louisiana is screwed up IMHO. But to answer the question, Yes in Louisiana any lawyer can subpeona any person, period.

Reality is I would never need you to testify. The wife my client can tesitfy saying what she saw. If she had a cell phone she could have taken pics of his car at your place. It is public record who owns the property, if a hotel room, well, what Judge is going to say the man is at a hotel room in his home town and he is not fucking someone? All the circumstantial evidence would be enough to have a divorce granted based upon adultery. If she has the phone numbers of many ladies and I can pull up there websites, and they are escorts, BAM! I got him. I would not subpeona an escort into Court, never goning to turn out good for my client. And what hooker is going to testify to having sex with him and being the person on the website? Not gona happen, Nicolet I think you are just fine.

The short answer is "yes" and it makes no difference if you were functioning as a provider, a girlfriend, or someone the guy picked up in a bar. If her attorneys have your legal name and wish to force your testimony on this issue they can do so. If served, you should hire an attorney.

Thank you, Bigh, and I will also follow the sage advice of STFU!