Welp learned my lesson today. Unless a relationship is established already dont line her pockets till shes out the door. I no longer (foolishly) think any fem is worth the risk of being burned.
Basically got the run around for two days and then a 2 word text 7minutes before kick off. Then no reply to my further inquiry.
Mostly mad at myself tbh. I know better but let the hopeful part of me win against common sense.
Inb4 the question of "why u no out her?" Simple shes a human with her own shit to deal with, probably needs this more than I need bens and it's probably not personal. Option opened for her to capitalize with no effort at the cost of my general good will, anyway I hit her up on ven to see if I can recover. Im not holding my breath.
Hope everyone has a great Sunday!