Getting turned down for a session.

If a provider turns you down for a session, would you want to know why?

I absolutely would want to know why. Could be that erroneous information is circulating that could hamper further forays in the hobby world.

Yes. I would want to know if it was something I should correct.

If it was because of age, weight, or just being too damned nice, I'll have to live with it.

For sure I would want to know.

Excellent.

Now, are there some reasons that are TMI? Like she is on her cycle, for example?


I turned down a session a few days ago due to the hobbyist reputation not so great amongst the ladies. I didn't tell him why because I didn't want to feel like I was throwing a few providers under the bus.



It was a catch 22 for me personally.

Do I want to know? Yes. Do I expect you (the collective you) to tell me anything truthful if I were to ask why? No.

Excellent.

Now, are there some reasons that are TMI? Like she is on her cycle, for example? Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

Yes, and no.
TMI: I'm bleeding like a stuck pig so I can't see you.
not TMI: This week isn't a good time for me. I'd still love to you see if you though if you're interested sometime next week.

Personally if that were the case, YES I would rather know that than think providers are talking shit sabotaging me in ladies area.

Yes, and no.
TMI: I'm bleeding like a stuck pig so I can't see you.
not TMI: This week isn't a good time for me. I'd still love to you see if you though if you're interested sometime next week. Originally Posted by FunInDFW

LOL....awesome advice! Thx!

To answer both of your questions......Yes and No!

I have visited more than one lady that I WISH had turned me down.

FunInDFW has it right in the case the there is a legit reason the provider needs to reschedule/cancel.

the other part of the question I believe was where the provider doesn't wish to see the hobbyist, in which case I would want to know if there was some misunderstanding, incorrect info or if there is just something that i may need to work on (deoderant, mints, showering, keeing my mouth shut etc.)

It would be nice to know but not expected to be told. Entirely up to you. The one I would really be interested in knowing is if I had a session and was then turned down for another one. Have had it happen only twice but have always wondered if it was something I did or said inadvertently.

if the guy is mature and capable of dealing with the truth, it could be valuable feedback. But, how id the provider to know?

I already have low self-esteem. If I get rejected by an escort I might kill myself. Better make up something good.

I already have low self-esteem. If I get rejected by an escort I might kill myself. Better make up something good. Originally Posted by L.A.

Yes Kaylee, if we are to be turned down a small explanation would be appreciated. There is a possibilty that incorrect info is being circulated. I realize from you veiw point the rejected fellow may start to argue. ugh.. there is no perfect way to go here.