A/threADS and ISO's in Another Realm ...

Although threADS and ISO's are allowed on Another Realm such as they are all over ECCIE, my suggestion would be to post ISO's in the area in which you're located.

You're going to get better responses. Ditto with "threADS".

There are so many wonderful directions that this forum can travel in, and have, and we have such freedoms to do so.

We really do not need these type of "look at me" threads in here.

If you're interested in something that is provocative with alternative play, then present a topic on it!

But please try to be creative with what topics you present. With the ladies, it's going to create interest because people who are interested in this type of playing field tend to be smarter and will spend the money to play.

Not having threADS is good for this example.

If you're a guy who is looking for "x,y and z" then it's in your best interest to create a new ISO topic in your respective city.

This is probably the best forum on ECCIE, in my humble opinion! I would sincerely like to see more topics on issues that are germane to JUST this forum.

Thanks,
Elisabeth

I wish ECCIE would create an "Another Realm" forum in each city/state, so that we would have a place to talk to people with the same interests in that city/state without having those who don't have the same ideas ridiculing them or questioning them.

Thats a good idea!

Yes, Some ISO requests could be locale specific, but some could be quite general in nature and perfectly fine here.

Such as...

• An ISO for a certain type of toy.
• An ISO for dungeon pieces.
• An ISO for fetish wear, such as leather or PVC.
• An ISO for dresses for crossdressing.

There are a lot of things to ask about that cannot be restricted to a particular area.

Many threads started by ladies could be seen as threADs in some way, yet many of these still lead to interesting and insightful discussions and exchanges of information.

Also, many ladies tour and many guys travel on business, so although you may not find a lady who's in a position to cater to a certain fetish tomorrow, you might be able to line it up down the road. For some of us, finding the right lady to explore some of our less mainstream desires takes more time and requires casting a wider net. ISO threads can also help other guys interested in the same thing find the right female participant.

Importantly, this is also a safe haven, so many people will feel more comfortable posting here then on a local board.

I guess this is my long way of saying that I hope the moderators aren't creating a chilling effect on discussions, female participation and sharing of information.

Many threads started by ladies could be seen as threADs in some way, yet many of these still lead to interesting and insightful discussions and exchanges of information.

Also, many ladies tour and many guys travel on business, so although you may not find a lady who's in a position to cater to a certain fetish tomorrow, you might be able to line it up down the road. For some of us, finding the right lady to explore some of our less mainstream desires takes more time and requires casting a wider net. ISO threads can also help other guys interested in the same thing find the right female participant.

Importantly, this is also a safe haven, so many people will feel more comfortable posting here then on a local board.

I guess this is my long way of saying that I hope the moderators aren't creating a chilling effect on discussions, female participation and sharing of information. Originally Posted by RoDunn

To answer your last line, nah .... none of us on Eccie (to the best of my knowledge!) wish to have ANY type of chilling effect. I was thinking, and typing, out loud yesterday.

Also, hoping for a little growth in this forum of ours, too!

Thanks for your response. I agree with everything that you've written.

Appreciate it!

Sincerely,
Elisabeth