Are you an open minded individual or do you prefer the same good ole TLC that you consider to be right for you personally.
Originally Posted by melannie_star
I don't really know if this is a 'this or that' type of question and more of a 'do what you're both comfortable with' one. I think everyone(?) can be both give the right coupling.
There are some ladies who have a nurturing personality that I've met and it's be rather 'vanilla' TLC which has been great. That's not the say the same ladies can't be open minded to some pretty freaky/kinky stuff, just might have to get to that point together.
Then there are those that I've see for the first time and straight up ask you the kind of wild shit you're into, say what they're up for, and you two turn into something else when getting the fuckery on. And again, not to say they can't be nurturing for 'vanilla' TLC.
So for guys I think there's what they'd be up for doing vs what they're comfortable doing with you.
Do you prefer your usual cup of tea or do you often find yourself wondering if the lady at your door will show you something a bit different with a twist of excellence?
Originally Posted by melannie_star
In the civvie world it usually veers on the really kinky/freaky*. Hobbying has been hit or miss, with many not coming off in our talks as wanting much of a twist. Personally, I wish every provider was up for that and delve into fun that isn't of the 'norm'. Many a PM have not been returned when asking if their role play or fantasy fulfilling repertoire delved into some of the things I've wanted. I'm always on the lookout for a lady that can make my mind think we're doing something we're not actually doing.
*edit - maybe it's the alcohol loosening up the inhibitions and realizing they're turned on be these things deep down, carnally.
edit 2 - I'd go on to say that finding a provider that is open to spontaneity like this, and is up for the same wild stuff you're in to is what would make them an ATF.