Outcall to your House?

Hello fellow Hobbyists,

Would you invite a provider over to your house for an Outcall visit or do Hotel only? I have my opinions but want to know what you guys think! I have heard some people say "hell no" and other say its no big deal. Want to get the vibe from people with more "experience"

Providers,

Does it bother you to do an Outcall to a residence? Do you prefer Hotel only? or are you game for whatever?

Looking forward to the input!

Single dude in an apartment with ikea furniture - why not.
Suburban home, SO, maybe kids, and even if the coast was clear absolutely fucking no way. And for the record I have a huge sectional in a media room that has epic threesome location written all over it, but no way would I risk it.

Don't lend her any luggage.

Edit: or leave your checkbook out.

^^^ Lol. I tend to avoid catering to married gents at their private residence unless their spouse is out of the country...good way to get shot, most wives don't like other Chefs in their kitchen while they are away.


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^^^ Lol. I tend to avoid catering to married gents at their private residence unless their spouse is out of the country...good way to get shot, most wives don't like other Chefs in their kitchen while they are away.


~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

I actually enjoy outcalls to private homes where we can both be comfortable and away from the scrutiny of hotel staff and other guests. I've done countless, but mostly to single, divorced, or widowed gentlemen. I tend to be much more wary when the fellow has an SO, especially if she is just away at work and not out of "unexpectedly dropping by the house for lunch toting her concealed handgun" range.

Most gents I have visited involved in supposedly-committed relationships used a guestroom for playtime, but occasionally we used the same bed that he and the SO slept in. I make no judgements about another person's morality, as that would be hypocritical given my profession, but I will admit to feeling extremely apprehensive and thinking it was disrespectful, but for some fellows, that heightens the thrill.

I never judge, just don't feel safe unless the Mrs is out of the country for the simple fact that women are highly intuitive people and may very well be monitoring things. Yes, it's always a risk, but I feel like more so on the home front, then there's the nanny cams, etc. I don't want to be called to testify, and before someone says it....YES, I am paranoid much, lol.


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No problem...as long as they don't criticize my housekeeping or crack wise about my ancient porno flicks.

I'm single, so outcalls to my place are fine. My one rule though is that I've had to have met her for an incall before. Once I know the provider and figure she's safe, then I'm ok with it. Even then though, I always make sure certain "things" are put away in a safe place.

I've broken the rule once or twice, but it was with a highly respected VP and got references from other mongers that have seen her.

No problem if you're single and live alone. The providers MUST be ECCIE reviewed with quite a few favorable reviews or favorable reviews from trusted hobbyists. No unknown BP chicks whatsoever!

Thanks for the replies so far. Interesting getting the different viewpoints.

I would only do it with verified eccie provider.
No to any BP Ho .......

^^^ Lol. I tend to avoid catering to married gents at their private residence unless their spouse is out of the country...good way to get shot, most wives don't like other Chefs in their kitchen while they are away.


~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

I am with Lexie on this one. Only if out of the country far far away. Ive had numerous request for outcalls while the wife is at work or out shopping for the day. I myself wouldnt be comfortable so I have to turn those down.

As far as bringing someone into your home, it should be a reputable provider with many good reviews.. If going with a new lady I would recommend seeing her on the outside before seeting up a home visit.

A whole thread of conversation about something I'd never considered. Applause to cashmoney for bringing it up!

The list of things I hadn't thought through well-enough continues to grow.

A whole thread of conversation about something I'd never considered. Applause to cashmoney for bringing it up!

The list of things I hadn't thought through well-enough continues to grow. Originally Posted by TravelingGentleman

I do use handcuffs sometimes for doubles or triples...cuff 'em to one another so a stray can't wander off while you're busy.