Why?

Ok, ladies, a general question here. I'm sitting here at a general location that a provider told me to head to and 'just call when you get there'.

And I have called twice and no response. This isn't the first time this has happened to me. So, my question is: what the f*ck?? Why would someone do this? What is the logic or situation that makes this something someone would do? If someone doesn't want to see me, why wouldn't they just say so and save me driving 20 minutes to a location and waste time?

I just don't get it.

Because they have no respect for there clients time!!! In sorry this happened sweets, if interested in available and I'll even do something special just to make up for her

Hey honey, some of them think that this is acceptable behavior. I'm sorry babe!!

Fuckin stupid! I'm so sorry Hun. Call someone else, fuck that corny shit.

The standard protocol is to wait 24-48 hours before posting the girl's name and label the event as a NCNS on the off chance a real world emergency precluded her from making contact and advising you she wouldn't be available. Of course, you are welcome to post her name at any time and she can choose to respond or not.

You mentioned this not being your first NCNS. Did you mean with this girl? If so, that is also valuable information.

We all know there are a variety of reasons for a NCNS and hopefully this girl will contact you with a valid one soon. Sorry for the loss of your time.

Just maybe.....she uses that location so she can see and check out her clients before the appt, and if you are a BUFF (Big Ugly Fat Fellow), then she just blows you off...

The standard protocol is to wait 24-48 hours before posting the girl's name and label the event as a NCNS on the off chance a real world emergency precluded her from making contact and advising you she wouldn't be available. Of course, you are welcome to post her name at any time and she can choose to respond or not.

You mentioned this not being your first NCNS. Did you mean with this girl? If so, that is also valuable information.

We all know there are a variety of reasons for a NCNS and hopefully this girl will contact you with a valid one soon. Sorry for the loss of your time. Originally Posted by scorpio31

That protocol is dumb. A lot of traveling girls that do this shit wont even be in the area when you post about it. Someone NCNS me, generally instant post when I get home. Why? cause I give a fuck.

Ok, ladies, a general question here. I'm sitting here at a general location that a provider told me to head to and 'just call when you get there'.

And I have called twice and no response. This isn't the first time this has happened to me. So, my question is: what the f*ck?? Why would someone do this? What is the logic or situation that makes this something someone would do? If someone doesn't want to see me, why wouldn't they just say so and save me driving 20 minutes to a location and waste time?

I just don't get it. Originally Posted by Johngalt0316

Who is John Galt?






Sorry, I couldn't resist. But it is a fitting connection don't you think?

If I was you I would call her out. Why not? I think its very rude period. Sorry hun.

316, Wichita area code.
Most or some providers over book, who ever shows up first is the one that's gets the pussy.
Remember it's a cash business. First one to flash the cash gets in the door.
Sounds like you were just a little late.
BTW, it happens more then you think.

So tell who did this to you. We can't read your mind, some on here can.

316, Wichita area code.
Most or some providers over book, who ever shows up first is the one that's gets the pussy.
Remember it's a cash business. First one to flash the cash gets in the door.
Sounds like you were just a little late.
BTW, it happens more then you think.

So tell who did this to you. We can't read your mind, some on here can. Originally Posted by Helicopter206

We are so lucky you're here to teach us the ways.

John Galt--see Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand

316, Wichita area code.
Most or some providers over book, who ever shows up first is the one that's gets the pussy.
Remember it's a cash business. First one to flash the cash gets in the door.
Sounds like you were just a little late.
BTW, it happens more then you think. Originally Posted by Helicopter206

We are so lucky you're here to teach us the ways. Originally Posted by Gemma34

I hate to say it, but from my experience Copter is right on the money. Of all the NCNS's I've had over the many years, about 80% have been because the provider overbooked to account for us clients not showing up or canceling. All the providers that I followed up with did admit this and I even re-booked with some and had a good experience. It's all about the money and I can't really blame them. The airlines does this all the time and no one is complaining about that. It's just business and the bottom line is what matters and the bottom line is making money.

I have learned over the years though and tend to make appointments with providers well in advance, see low volume providers, or see providers I have seen several times before and are dependable. I find that tends to reduce the NCNS's drastically and have only had a couple cancellations and they seemed to be for legitimate reasons.

Care/dare to share the details. If not I can understand who dominates your mind.

John Galt--see Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand Originally Posted by Nero Wolfe

I know. And as you recall the popular question "Who is John Galt" referred to the lackluster decline in services and sense of responsibility.


Just a joke