Sensualist, Fetishist, and What it takes to Be ONE

I am sometimes so amazed that some providers will come into the fetish art with absolutely NO understanding of it at all. Just because your clients bring you a toy does that make you KNOW how to use it without harm? To practice true fetishism you need to understand the emotional and physical dyanamics. The wrong step could cause long term harm. Even in something as simple as roleplay..... you can trigger a responce that your not ready for.

Always interview and plan your session at least a day ahead of time so you can engineer everything. Remember when a client tells you to push his limits, they are usually about 99 percents not ready for that. Use that inituition that God has given you to sync with your clients true needs.

A True Goddess is not made........ She is BORN

I agree, darlin. Many of my clients are interested in dabbling in darker desires but not sure where to start. We spend time talking a bit about what interests them and what absolutely does NOT interest them. But first sessions (and all those thereafter, but most especially first session) is about the domina paying attention to every reaction of the client. Ready pleasure versus true distress versus a blend of both (ideal!).

Being a fetish queen or a true domina is not for everyone, nor should it be taken lightly...especially if you don't know what you're doing. I, for one, do not play with CBT or anything comparable to it, as am not truly schooled in it and would not harm anyone with my naivete.

Be safe and above all...enjoy!
xoxo
Aela

Ohhhhh.....Yum Ladies....Yum Yum Yum...
I being new to the darker side will appreciate someone taking the time to know me, and my body. I am concerned that ass play may result in injury or an overall bad experience. Having said that I know me and depending on my level of excitement will affect my darker desires to emerge.

I can't wait to get started. I believe it will begin for me this week. I pray it does as I soooo want to please.

Well, Ain't....let's hope you're ready for me and your darker desires by the time I cum back round to KC....
xoxo
Aela

ohhhh I can only hope at this point. I pray you are gentle as I am but a delicate flower waiting to bloom.

I should write BDSM cards for Hallmark...ijs