No Ads, No ISO - so alternative is PM? Opinions?

mtabsw's Avatar
I've been getting PMs from providers that I have never seen in private.

What does everyone think?
Chung Tran's Avatar
I think it is okay, although I have not got any. maybe the ladies rifle through my reviews, and see that I reviewed exactly ONE ECCIE girl this year.. AMPs, Listcrawler, and a few private recommendations are my real sources of pleasure.

I expect that won't be an issue soon. ECCIE will find a way to allow ads, just in a different manner than we are accustomed.
SchnellerFahrer's Avatar
I think it is okay, although I have not got any.. . . Originally Posted by Chung Tran
BINGO. for the LIFE of me, I don't understand why I have not been blind contacted. I consider myself a stellar client, P411 certified, always respectful and 'normal' in all ways.

Exception is some ladies whom I have recurring meetings setup in advance - we generally dialogue in order to confirm the next meeting, sometimes friendly texting in between meetings. If I've seen someone multiple times - I ALWAYS let them know it's OK to reach out to me, (before setting an "available now" ad on P411), as I will Always, 100% of the time set an appt asap.

Of course - if I reach out myself - generally things go great, and we have a great meeting.

However - I can get <ghosted> even from ATF's, and have not had a single one otherwise has reached out ever since the shutdown.

It's disappointing, really - don't ladies value good clients???
iLuvRon-Burgundy's Avatar
Realistic should allow more messages from both sides. But I wouldn’t open a bulk message, not only looks like spam but easy to net many in one message... not into casting a big net
mtabsw's Avatar
Way more poll responses than replies - as expected. The poll of 60+ was 67% positive with only a few negative.

What I learned -
  1. be more tolerant of women pushing their business interests since there really is no other way to do it.
  2. We should do more in coed to encourage direct PMs or at least not discourage it
  3. As usual only a few men replied, and no women.
  4. ADMINS / OWNERS should think about loosening up the number of addressees in PMs to make up for all the lost marketing arenas.
GIRLS - you gotta step up the game here!
I expected to see more links to the Providers websites in their sig lines. Can’t understand why I don’t see them.
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
Can't have them any longer
I expected to see more links to the Providers websites in their sig lines. Can’t understand why I don’t see them. Originally Posted by Prolongus
Idk what's going on with escort sites in general. I know I am a great provider but since new laws passed it really has slowed down posting an ad has become more difficult and even p411 is dead wonder where everyone is going because I'm not into harassing the gentlemen if they like me they'll contact me I don't get the unsolicited emails
If the fee is reasonable (varies a lot depending on cash in pocket, LOL) I am open to being contacted by anyone I have had communications with or engaged in conversation in any thread.