Musings about secret benefits

I know it's probably been mentioned before but I thought I would share my experience with the site and the way it operates.


I'll start of by saying this.........like SA, I think it is pretty much a scam. While I do recognize 2 of the ladies on Secret Benefits, the rest that are in my search criteria................who the hell knows. You do need to buy "credits" in order to read messages and see "secret album" photos and being curious, I had $59 burning a hole in my pocket so I decided to take the plunge.
Well for a couple of days, nothing. I sent a few "messages" to some of the ladies, nothing. Then I got a few unsolicited messages and I replied to a couple of them.

That was pretty much it. Other than blowing 10 credits here and there to see the "secret album", nothing else came of the conversations.


Only when I got down to 10 credits did I suddenly get bombarded with things like "show her you're a top admirer" or "make sure your messages go to the top of her list". All of course requiring credits and of course, more money.

My take is that it probably has some sort of algorithm that runs based on profile login times length of time logged in that kick off "messages" being sent. The verbiage of the message itself is not mumbo jumbo per se, but I wonder if said lady really really really wrote it. Naturally the gist is to get you to buy more credits so you can reply to all these "real" ladies wanting to be your secret. Yeah, right.


Not saying I got burned or screwed, but just sharing my thoughts and experiences. It is based in Nicosia Cyprus, the Turkish occupied section. For that matter SA is also based in Cyprus but not sure if in the Greek or Turkish areas.

I know it's probably been mentioned before but I thought I would share my experience with the site and the way it operates.


I'll start of by saying this.........like SA, I think it is pretty much a scam. While I do recognize 2 of the ladies on Secret Benefits, the rest that are in my search criteria................who the hell knows. You do need to buy "credits" in order to read messages and see "secret album" photos and being curious, I had $59 burning a hole in my pocket so I decided to take the plunge.
Well for a couple of days, nothing. I sent a few "messages" to some of the ladies, nothing. Then I got a few unsolicited messages and I replied to a couple of them.

That was pretty much it. Other than blowing 10 credits here and there to see the "secret album", nothing else came of the conversations.


Only when I got down to 10 credits did I suddenly get bombarded with things like "show her you're a top admirer" or "make sure your messages go to the top of her list". All of course requiring credits and of course, more money.

My take is that it probably has some sort of algorithm that runs based on profile login times length of time logged in that kick off "messages" being sent. The verbiage of the message itself is not mumbo jumbo per se, but I wonder if said lady really really really wrote it. Naturally the gist is to get you to buy more credits so you can reply to all these "real" ladies wanting to be your secret. Yeah, right.


Not saying I got burned or screwed, but just sharing my thoughts and experiences. It is based in Nicosia Cyprus, the Turkish occupied section. For that matter SA is also based in Cyprus but not sure if in the Greek or Turkish areas. Originally Posted by Zeman

So look, of course there are scams on both SA and SB, just like there are on almost any site. But, if you learn how to use the sites and bypass the obvious scams and gals who are just TGTBT, there are a lot of real gems on both sites. I split time between Miami and Pittsburgh and over the past 5 years or so I’ve met some here around 15 gals who are real and with whom I’ve had a great time. Twice I even met gals who also split time between PGH and Miami and fucked them in both cities. I currently have 2 SBs in Miami and 2 in Pittsburgh. And they’re all extremely attractive, ones a fitness trainer and ones a model. Be willing to invest some time (and money) into your search. Taking them out for lunch or dinner and treating them with respect pays great dividend in the long run. Too many guys on this site treat SA and SB as hooker sites. They’re not! But if you make a real connection with the young hotties on the site, bbfs and full gfe is the norm.