This past weekend I posted here because the lady I was planning to see cancelled because she was sick.. I only posted because I was in the mood to play and had the time to play. I intentionally didn't name her because I believed her. Since then I've had some folks contact wanting to know who she was. The implication being that they didn't want to try to see her because she cancelled.
I believe there is a big difference between a NCNS and a cancellation. As somebody pointed out sometimes real life gets in the way of this fantasy world of hours. I believe that any provider worth her salt will get in touch and let you know what happened. Sometimes they will not be able to explain until after the fact but they will explain. We guys need to give them the benefit of the doubt until proven other wise.
On the other hand somebody with a history of NCNS or using the same excuse over and over probably needs to be called out.
And guys.. some of us are guilty of this also. (I can hear the ladies saying "Damned right") We schedule and then don't show up and don't call. It's not fair to the ladies.
I will call out NCNS's but am not going to talk badly about somebody who had to cancel for a legitimate reason.. Just my opinion