A provider told my bf what I do

So Friday night I had invited a girl to come up from austin to Killeen to come work and use my incall this was our first time meeting I was going to take pics for her too. Everything seem fine and she actully seem really cool at first but like anyone else here I did have a bf and we went to his place to get dinner and we had a few drinks. Out of no where she tells him that I am a provider and also told him about eccie and backpage. I was really good about hiding it but he now knows everything. She destroyed his apartment and ran around naked breaking stuff. I am not sure if she was on drugs I never saw any I don't do them.
So if you wanna know who it is pm me or if its okay to put her handle up
Needless to say the bf broke up with me and won't even talk to me so there goes that

I think your boyfriend should be more patient and understanding, but, perhaps, he feels betrayed that you did not tell him earlier. If you two have history, then it may be possible to work it out with him. good luck

You really think hiding something like that is a good idea? I would think there is no easy way to break that news, the longer you hide it the more betrayed I'm sure he'd feel when you did try to tell him. Just my opinion, but you may want to be upfront with any person you decide you want to have a relationship with. It's one thing to hide that you were married once, or went to jail for example, but if you're currently fucking other dudes for money and not telling him is pretty messed up. And that doesn't even begin to bring up the possible risks you are exposing him to without his knowledge.

Jenna, sorry that you are having problems.
If you feel it necessary, the Eccie handle can be revealed. But absolutely no real-life info at all.

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Enough damage has been done so can you please close the thread and just let everyone know this is the girl that outed me but I am sure she has plenty to say

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You really think hiding something like that is a good idea? I would think there is no easy way to break that news, the longer you hide it the more betrayed I'm sure he'd feel when you did try to tell him. Just my opinion, but you may want to be upfront with any person you decide you want to have a relationship with. It's one thing to hide that you were married once, or went to jail for example, but if you're currently fucking other dudes for money and not telling him is pretty messed up. And that doesn't even begin to bring up the possible risks you are exposing him to without his knowledge. Originally Posted by Rigin

This was my personal choice to separate my personal life and hobby life but just like any person in the hobby it is not a good thing to be outed, I learn a hard lesson and I will no longer be dating but being a excellent provider and stay single

Some people are sick and some people are just asshats. Either way, we live, learn, and avoid them going forward.

Sorry it happened to you Jenna....move on, life too short worrying about past

It is th OP's choice to handle ways she decided too, I would take this to my GRAVE if i could. I do not blame the OP at all! Im just amazed you refrained from kiccking this girls ass!! Have you spoken to her since?

post this in austin forums hun. local girls need to know too

She was probably jealous. I have always been weary of people who go around needing complete strangers help, and frankly in this business its too much to lose. You try to help a girl who "doesn't have a pot to piss in and a back door to throw it out of" and she gets jealous and tries to bring you down to the same level that they are on. I say stay away from letting any girls live with you or use your incall, just think if something goes wrong with her and a client in your place, you will be just as responsible as she. I like to only be responsible for myself and my own clients.

i am sorry this happened to you, just remember this business is lucrative and with lucrative comes alot of people who are into the biz for the wrong reasons & with mal-intentions

you probably should have free sex with everyone on this board to teach him a lesson. if need be i would go first.

She was probably jealous. I have always been weary of people who go around needing complete strangers help, and frankly in this business its too much to lose. You try to help a girl who "doesn't have a pot to piss in and a back door to throw it out of" and she gets jealous and tries to bring you down to the same level that they are on. I say stay away from letting any girls live with you or use your incall, just think if something goes wrong with her and a client in your place, you will be just as responsible as she. I like to only be responsible for myself and my own clients.

i am sorry this happened to you, just remember this business is lucrative and with lucrative comes alot of people who are into the biz for the wrong reasons & with mal-intentions Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Amen!

Smart taking a chick you don't know around your real world relations. Then... expecting her to keep her mouth shut and have some sense of propriety regarding your lifestyle.

Some girls have no grasp of the concept "double life" because they have never had to carry on like that.

I am interested if it was just a mistake, being, "well I assumed"... or if it was malicious.

HUGE difference.

The story seems shaky to me. Why would a provider just rip apart someone's apartment? Provoked? Cornered? Why was she naked in HIS apartment unless you set up a 3some and something went wrong?

It was not provoke at all yup I am part to blame for bringing her around my real world friend that was a mistake shame on me never again (Lesson Learned)
She asked for a 3 some and I said no so she rips her clothes off and just went ape shit.
I talk to my ex today and slowly starting to replace his belonging and he said it was not provoked on my part once so ever. Just glad it is over and I am safe.

Smart taking a chick you don't know around your real world relations. Then... expecting her to keep her mouth shut and have some sense of propriety regarding your lifestyle.

Some girls have no grasp of the concept "double life" because they have never had to carry on like that.

I am interested if it was just a mistake, being, "well I assumed"... or if it was malicious.

HUGE difference.

The story seems shaky to me. Why would a provider just rip apart someone's apartment? Provoked? Cornered? Why was she naked in HIS apartment unless you set up a 3some and something went wrong? Originally Posted by ~Ze~