I mean before money is exchanged. Sometimes you meet them and they are acting a way where you would not even want them for free... what is a respectful way to leave?
Originally Posted by bigdik11
Definitely leave at least a cancellation fee; if not the full rate. She reserved this time for you, when she could have scheduled someone else. Then took time to get ready for you.
Only exception is if it's bait and switch or wildly outdated pics or unsafe situation of some kind.
This works the other way too. If someone comes to my door, and I just CAN'T bring myself to touch them in ANY way or I'm creeped out or feel unsafe, of course a provider should have the option of not providing. No one should ever feel like they have to do something they don't want to, in the hobby. If a providers or client's instincts are tingling and saying NO, we should all listen. I use my intuition as much as screening sometimes, when deciding on weather or not to see someone.
Only happened one time; when I was new. I apologized profusely and said my sister just called and was 5 mins away and was stopping by with my little niece and she wouldn't take no for an answer. Guy was disappointed but left without incident. I know a lot of guys always try to have a Plan B.