I have a difficult time keeping it hard when I wear a condom, so I would love to go BB L3 with these girls; however, I'm scared of getting an STD. So for those of you who do go BB all the time, why aren't you all worried about STDs?
Originally Posted by Love Rim Jobs
Odds are if you do it frequently you’re going to catch something. Probably non-life threatening and/or treatable with medication, but you’ll catch something.
What you have to determine is how it will affect your life if even the most common and easily curable/treatable STIs show up. How is your life affected if you get genital herpes? Chlamidia?
Many of these guys don’t have SOs. The smart ones get tested regularly and if something “comes up”, they get it treated so they aren’t further endangering themselves or their partners.
If you aren’t in that category, you need to first consider treating the underlying problem causing you not to be able to wear a condom. If that doesn’t work (or until it does), consider other modes of satisfaction. There are women who are adept at making a non-FS experience as enjoyable as FS.
There is no magic wand that you can wave to make the risk of BBFS go away. Risk mitigation is all you can do to make it less likely that a negative life-changing experience will occur. Once you can accept that reality, you can figure out the way forward that is best for you.