YESTERDAY I HAD A MAN REQUEST A SESSION AND I TOLD HIM I DONT HAVE ANY BLACK CLIENTS... NOW HES CALLING AND TEXTIN ME NON STOP SAYING HES GONNA SHOOT ME IN THE HEAD AND TURN ME INTO THE POLICE.. HOW TO HANDLE TO MAN????
Originally Posted by kanadakane12
There are ways of declining an appointment with a man without giving him a reason. Something as simple as saying, "I just don't think that we would be a good match" is a good start.
Otherwise, if he's threatening bodily violence and he knows where you live, file a police report. They don't care, in this instance, the why's, etc.
Or if he doesn't know where you're located and you don't wish to go in that direction, do not text him back. Don't respond. I've had stalkers before and it's best to ignore them. About 99.9% of the time, they go away.
You have the right to see, or not see, anyone that you choose to. We all know that. But often, it's best to be gracious about the reasons why you don't wish to see someone. I'm not placing any blame at all. But honey, bears, sweetness ... it generally works on some level.
Good luck with this. Horrible situation.
Sincerely,
Elisabeth