Just a note on terminology. Edge play and edging aren't the same thing. I learned edge play as knife play, but I believe that the terminology has grown to mean any B&D activities that ride the riskier "edge", like playing with live blades or breath play (asphyxiation), etc.. Basically anything that can seriously fuck you up if you're not perfectly in control.
What you are describing is edging or prolonged T&D sessions, which is also one of my faves, btw...
Originally Posted by TheOtherMan
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You took the words out of my mouth. I will typically only do edge play in my personal life and with experienced Doms. Edging can be fun with anyone though. And yes, both girls and guys can do it.