References

I just been wondering what it is that you ladies look for or gets us guys approved to see you while checking with other girls during references.
Do you look for what type of girl we seen before you on whether she seen alot of guys or does the activities play a role? Do you ask how our appearance was, like if we good looking, good size dick or clean, freaky?...just wondering what it is besides making sure we arent any law enforcement? I like to think i left a damn good impression on my providers!

They aren't going to tell you that , how effective would screening be then ? It would be like taking a test with all the answers !

just wondering what it is besides making sure we arent any law enforcement? Originally Posted by spank_my_monkey76

Reviews will show you that most ladies are seeing little weazly guys like RockerRick up to ginormous small dicked guys. Age ranges from 30 to 70. Guys that brag about their cock size..... All you need to do is look at who reviews them....

Other than a few picky ladies I've been told it comes down to

1) Were you on time?
2) Did you Pay?
3) Would they see you again?

If you are not clean they will shove you in a shower and burn some of your session time...

And if 1, 2 and 3 are all Yes they will usually see the LE types as well.

You do't think Cops get an itch and scratch it occasionally?

Damn W if I had any feelings that might actually hurt !

Some quotes from this fascinating article might be relevant. (This is an article about the hobby in the UK; "punter" is the English slang for "hobbyist".)

The women described the average client’s attitude towards sex as primarily being respectful, nervous and eager. I got the impression from the way the escorts spoke about their clients that they do respect the men who pay them for sex, but it’s mostly a professional type of respect, much like the kind any seller would have for a buyer. This sentiment shone through in the women’s answers to two questions in particular: would you consider being friends with a client? Most would, but only select clients. And would you ever consider dating a client? 77% said no, they wouldn’t. Only 4 of the 30 had dated a punter. Whether this is because escorts tend to see their clients as being undesirable in some way is anyone’s guess. It could just be that, like in the rest of life, you don’t mix business with pleasure. Clients are clients.

So, in reality, how do the women really feel about the act that defines their jobs? Is their enthusiasm a charade? Are their orgasms faked? And do their favourite sex acts match their clients’?

The answer to that last question is ‘sort of, but not entirely’. The majority of the escorts like vaginal sex and fellatio without a condom, which match the clients’ top two favourite sex acts. The clients’ 8th favourite act out of 16 was anal sex, which ranked as the escorts’ number one least favourite. I asked the women what factors they consider when certain sex acts, like anal sex and ‘cum on face’ are listed on their sites as being at their ‘discretion’. The main response was the clients’ hygiene, followed by how turned on they feel at the time.

Interesting read Q, makes a lot of sense.

Q, can you post a link to the full article?

Q, can you post a link to the full article? Originally Posted by Fratelli

Fratelli, Qziz did just that. Tap on his first sentence, on "this fascinating article".

Fratelli, Qziz did just that. Tap on his first sentence, on "this fascinating article". Originally Posted by El Cid

Ooops, thanks Cid, I was viewing on my phone and didn't notice the hyperlink.

I have existed since the beginning. Sometimes in solitude, others marching with legions through the fire of pandemonium. Alas I have found the key, and now I'm released. Free to spread my wings, and reclaim my kingdom. I have been reborn! I am Satan! I am a great reference, just mention my name

Guys can do some lewd shit talk. But in comparison, it pales.

You don't want to overhear what girls have to say to one another about their boyfriends, when they have a sleepover and are giggly tipsy. It is liable to scar you for life.

Daum. Maybe that's why I'm so f-ed up in the head.

Back on topic. I'm pretty sure that 95% of the time, it's a simple email/text with something like "Yes, have seen him - I can vouch that he is cool".

SCREENING.. the basics. Most providers are looking for the same things when calling your references. First something to consider.. When giving references, try giving references with the same level of screening as the provider you are trying to see, otherwise, she may not consider the reference at all. Meaning, in most cases, a provider that is careful and takes the time to do her due diligence is not going to take refs from a noobie friendly provider.

1. Punctuality (did client arrive on time, leave on time)
2. Hygiene (this should be common sense)
3. Attitude (this should be common sense)
4. Generosity (was client a haggler, average, or a baller)

Total sausagefest ! Not a single provider , told you they weren't spilling it !

thanks for feedback....interesting!

I will be honest with this.....

i am very interested in the guys that I see and I try to make the best out of the date as possible,,,

When I contact a lady for screening I ask the following:

1. Was he punctual
2. Clean, did you notice if he smoked
3. Age and discription what he looks like (just to give me an idea not that it matters but helps me prepare for our date
4. What kind of personality
5. Did you notice what he liked/ disliked more (Play time)
6. Did he respect your donation and time?
7. Would you see him again

I have no shame in how I screen. I want to make sure everyone is safe and comfortable.

This could be a helpful thread if more ladies chimed in. We could learn from each other....I am sure there is something I should be asking that I am missing