Sorry for your bad experience, OP, but additional research might have prevented this. Not his first rodeo.
And frankly, references older than 6 months are often questionable unless some valid explanation is offered upon submission for screening.
Now, to be fair, did this JUST happen today? Usually best to wait 24 hours before posting an alert in case something unavoidable occurred, like a car accident, death in the family, etc. Sometimes gentlemen (and ladies, too) need a wee bit of time for notification and apology in an emergency situation.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I get this, I may be new to this site but im not new. one ref was a bit older. the rest were okay... I have notes from before for him bs'ing me , he had new references. so I made the mistake of giving him an appt. I will no longer post anything of this type, good luck to those here.