What do you do after a dissapointment ?

Recently I hobbied in Kansas city . Saw provider named Melissa for the second time. First time was great and the price was reasonable. 2nd time I wanted to do something different which. She agreed to for a lot more $ than before. But she really wasn't in to it and frankly I wish she would have just said no. All was completed as agreed with zero enthusiasm and a lets get this over with mentality.

I'm not going to review her cause she did do good the first time . And other reasons also she is not online that I know of.

. I paid the full amount plus a tip. But I gotta be honest really was a let down.

. I keep thinking of the phrase "You can shear a sheep many times but you can only skin him once" Keep thinking that money would have bought someone a really nice Christmas gift

. After my last big disappointment which was a 300$ hottie in the not so great state of California I quit for around a 2/3 of a year. I mean internet porn is free. And way better than a girl who insist on a covered bj . Even if she is a hot girl

. How long does it take you to recover from a disappointment ?

First, No Tip - A tip signifies doing a better job than expected, not worse.
Second - Sounds like you asked her to do something she wasn't really into and only did it to make more money. I would write the experience off as a nice attempt.
Finally, next time, I would look for a provider that advertises what you are looking for already.

I would write the second review so that people know that she is not down for that type of play. its pointless to us if you give the go ahead she is a ok. but you had a second encounter with her that was sub par and say nothing. and I have had several disappointing encounters. I just chalk it up to I have spent that amount or more on stupider shit.

I agree with some of your sentiments, most appropriately that after a disappointing session, you really do wonder WTF you spent that much money for... I mean for $200 or more you could go gamble at the casino, etc etc etc... Providers sometimes don't realize that for some folks, their fee is a stretch that they treat themselves with, not "their" money that they are somehow entitled to for showing up.

Regardless, it does indeed, as some have pointed out, that she agreed for more money, and you obliged her by "tipping" and even giving her more money. Don't do it... it just increases your disappointment. Tip only if you walked out wondering what your name was...

Anyway, first thing to do is WRITE A REVIEW. Do you want someone else to end up as disappointed as you are? If she has good reviews, you need to balance that out with truth. That's why this place exists, to exchange information, good, bad or indifferent. It might save someone else the disappointment you suffered, maybe even ME!

It takes me a few months to get a bad one out of my system, as it really does suck to lay out money, get all excited, and then get let down, so part of it is the backlash cognitively of such build up. Maybe you're investing too much in anticipation? I've found that more information usually means I have a realistic assessment of what I'm going to get out of it, which helps avoid disappointment. (and your review helps provide that information!)

Think of it this way, you gave YOURSELF a present, it just wasn't as good as you'd hoped. It's like an expensive meal... you've already bought it when you ate it, so enjoy what you can, and just move on and never eat there again.

But always let other folks know what the food is like

Hope that helps, and I hope you find someone willing to make your Holidays Happier!

Play safe everyone, and enjoy!

I dealt with this a few times consecutively and ultimately I changed my entire hobby approach. I went back to those few providers that I had great connections with and concentrated my hobby there.
The problem with that strategy has been that your ATFs begin to exit the business.

I dealt with this a few times consecutively and ultimately I changed my entire hobby approach. I went back to those few providers that I had great connections with and concentrated my hobby there.
The problem with that strategy has been that your ATFs begin to exit the business. Originally Posted by Mufflerbearings

I've done kind of like Muffler has.I only see providers now that consistently do as they say they will do.Problem is,there are so few,and there's getting to be fewer all the time.

Recently I hobbied in Kansas city . Saw provider named Melissa for the second time. First time was great and the price was reasonable. 2nd time I wanted to do something different which. She agreed to for a lot more $ than before. But she really wasn't in to it and frankly I wish she would have just said no. All was completed as agreed with zero enthusiasm and a lets get this over with mentality.

I'm not going to review her cause she did do good the first time . And other reasons also she is not online that I know of.

. I paid the full amount plus a tip. But I gotta be honest really was a let down.

. I keep thinking of the phrase "You can shear a sheep many times but you can only skin him once" Keep thinking that money would have bought someone a really nice Christmas gift

. After my last big disappointment which was a 300$ hottie in the not so great state of California I quit for around a 2/3 of a year. I mean internet porn is free. And way better than a girl who insist on a covered bj . Even if she is a hot girl

. How long does it take you to recover from a disappointment ? Originally Posted by Hobgoblin

As long as it takes you to call a provider that provides you with a yes...and a hell of a good time..

So true. And once your favorites begin to rotate out, it becomes more of an effort and you begin questioning the effort/risk to benefit.

Recently I hobbied in Kansas city . Saw provider named Melissa for the second time. First time was great and the price was reasonable. 2nd time I wanted to do something different which. She agreed to for a lot more $ than before. But she really wasn't in to it and frankly I wish she would have just said no. All was completed as agreed with zero enthusiasm and a lets get this over with mentality.

I'm not going to review her cause she did do good the first time . And other reasons also she is not online that I know of.

. I paid the full amount plus a tip. But I gotta be honest really was a let down.

. I keep thinking of the phrase "You can shear a sheep many times but you can only skin him once" Keep thinking that money would have bought someone a really nice Christmas gift

. After my last big disappointment which was a 300$ hottie in the not so great state of California I quit for around a 2/3 of a year. I mean internet porn is free. And way better than a girl who insist on a covered bj . Even if she is a hot girl

. How long does it take you to recover from a disappointment ? Originally Posted by Hobgoblin

The activities that y'all did the 2nd time did she advertise those activities or did you ask if she would do it? What were the activities?

Why would you tip her if she didn't live up to you expectations your basically telling her she performed very well..

Next time you should do your research honestly sorry this happen to you..

....Next time you should do your research honestly sorry this happen to you.. Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

Get over yourself!! At this stage of your life, the lessons get more and more expensive... The money is gone - Learn from it and move on.

You have buyer's remorse! Get over that, too. Listen to what DotMo has to say and do your research to make sure what you want from a visit is exactly what you get!!

Now rub some dirt on it and get back in the game!!

You should do a review!!! That might be her M.o. and guys need to know!!!
Don't let a past experience over glow the new session, if she was mechanical the second time and shitty attitude then she should be called out plain and simple. That's why some of these girls can get away with anything and guys will still see them because there's no no reviews to go off of.
Hold her accountable maybe then she'll turn around and fly right.

Sorry about your shitty time that definitely sucks