Where an ASP decides to stay while visiting will sometimes impact whether I will or can see her. I always ask for their general area when setting up an initial appointment. Many times the question is bounced back to me as to where I think they should stay. Rather than repeating myself I think I will just link them here.
240/Poplar
http://maps.google.com/maps?q=35.104...num=1&t=m&z=13
This seems to be the most popular area to stay for visiting ASPs. It offers a good central location between downtown and the more affluent areas of the city out east. It is relatively safe and has decent dining opportunities.
Nearby hotels include the Hilton, LaQuinta, Hyatt Place, Holiday Inn Select, Four Points (meh), Courtyard, Hampton, and Doubletree. I hear it is fairly easy to find deals on most these properties using the discount sites.
Downtown
http://maps.google.com/maps?q=35.151...num=1&t=m&z=13
This would be the location visitors stay for the tourist experience as it is close to Beale St. and sorta near Graceland (never been). As with most downtown areas, parking sucks. You will be panhandled at some point even though police presence is fairly high. If you like ribs, the famous Rendezvous is nearby (not a fan). I don’t feel as safe in this area as the others I will mention. Personally, an ASP would have had to have been on my radar for a long time for me to consider seeing her if she stays here.
Nearby hotels include the famous Peabody (with the ducks), Crown Plaza, Hampton, Mariott, and Holiday Inn Select. I have no idea if these properties are good for discounts.
I-40/Sycamore View
http://maps.google.com/maps?q=35.165...num=1&t=m&z=13
This area looks good on the internet, but it isn't except for Bass Pro. Most of the properties are run down and likely offer hourly rates. Dining here is mostly fast food.
The only hotel in this area that I personally would stay at is the Drury. The Clarion has been recently renovated I think, but still looks like shit from the outside.
Germantown
http://maps.google.com/maps?q=35.087...num=1&t=m&z=13
This area is known for being one of the most affluent suburbs. It has rules about store fronts and signs, traffic cameras, highly enforced speed zones, boutique shopping, boutique eating, yadda yadda, pretty safe area. It is southeast of Memphis proper and may not be convenient for some.
Hotels here are the Residence, Hampton, Hyatt Place, and a Fairfield. Being somewhat ritzier, I would assume available discounts are rare.
Wolfchase
http://maps.google.com/maps?q=35.195...num=1&t=m&z=13
This is one of the newest areas of the city. It is also fairly affluent. Lots of chain dining. I’d say it as safe as Germantown. It is northeast of Memphis and may not be convenient for some (although the most convenient for me ).
Hotels here are a brand new LaQuinta, pretty new Holiday Inn Select, Hampton, Hyatt Place, Fairfield, and Wingate. A recent conversation leads me to believe you will be hard pressed to find deals in this area. Bummer.
Enjoy your stay.