Bristol's words of wisdom :)

I was given the great advice as a child to always "sleep on it" before doing anything drastic or making a important decision. I can no longer bite my tongue. I was a office manager at a large company for 5 years, while there I adopted the attitude of always trying to please everyone. That attitude has carried over into my time as a provider. I have also been very confidential in all matters and never vocalize any problems or issues I may have. I have never responded to any post or email regarding a private matter other then with "I don't want to talk about it" or "It's nothing".

Most of you guys are GREAT, but a few "bad apples" are soon to ruin my positive attitude and me accepting new clients.

This is in response to a recent review on eccie, but is also to the few other "bad apples" that have taken my pleasing attitude and silence as weakness.

A few reasons I will not meet with you:

You email me over 130 times without ever meeting me or booking a appointment.

You refuse to provide the information I would like for screening

You references are UTR or do not respond/retired and do not respond/change there name & phone number once a week/you met them once over 5 years ago/you and or I cannot find any contact info for so and so............you get the picture.

The one reference that does respond to me has no reviews and sends me a email with the same exact bad grammar you email me with.

You want to use your cell phone number as verification but refuse to call me or text me on that number.

If you request a change in the appointment time with less then a hour notice, I will try and accommodate you as I know things happen. But I cannot guarantee it will happen. That is not a NCNS.

You can request I "bring a friend". I will try and accommodate this, but with less then a hour notice the chances are slim.

If I must pry the screening information out of you, I will now just ignore your emails.

There are some questions I will just not answer unless you are a verified client. I will nicely let you know this but after that stop asking.

For all you wonderful guys I have met, feel free to ignore this

XOXO
Bristol (maybe Bristol the Bitch after this post)

I forgot the most important thing!

I do not consider it a NCNS if we have a tentative appointment and your screening info does not pan out.

Just because I tell you I am available next Tuesday at 5 does not mean I will still meet you when you refuse to be verified.

Good job Bristol. Excellent post. The bad grammar drives me nuts also.

Sounds perfectly reasonable to me.

Bristol, you are definitely not a bitch in my book. I think most of us are standing in your corner. I'm sorry that you have ever had to meet any bad apples that have taken advantage of your gentle soul. You are a good woman and a great provider.

Bristol,
Heads up sweetheart. You're a class act and I admire you for being security conscious. All it takes is "once" and you're in deep doo doo. Your safety is most important, so stick with your convictions and, yes, you have a lot of us in your corner.

Well said Sweet Lady, As someone who has enjoyed your company in the not to distant past.
If a guy doesn't play by your rules then he doesn't get to play simple answer. I have that choice in my business and yes there are people we choose not to do business with. You have the same right and should excercise that right when ever you wish.

Well, well, well, getrdone, I'm guessing you can relate to some, if not all of what our friend Bristol posted, can't you? I'm also guessing she didn't tell the whole story did she? I doubt any reputable girl would meet you based on all of the crap you put Bristol through!


Shame on you for misleading us even though I doubt anyone who knows Bristol or has read about her believed any of your claims.

I will proudly wear the title of 'Bristol's Bitch' along with my buddy Malwoody!

I love you guys! Even though the tone of my first post was not a smiling one, at this point I can only laugh at the FT's. Anyone who knows me knows that is one "bad word" I use too much even in my day to day life.

Fuck tard? Too funny.

Bristol, did you actually tell the reviewer that you would not meet him since he didn't comply with all of your requirements or did you just ignore him? I think that's what the reviewer was complaining about.


His review states he made it to your incall and his calls weren't returned. If true, why not just inform him well beforehand you won't meet him?

Like I said before I hate talking about personal matters in a public forum, but I did start this one so I do have to finish it I did tell the reviewer I was unable to meet him unless he called or texted me from his phone number or I could call or text him. He used his phone number as identification with his reference so I wanted to know he was who he said he was before he was in my room. At that point he would only communicate with email and changed his story many times in the 10 minutes we were emailing. I have a long standing rule about not giving out too much info in email. I will give you a general area of my incall but for a room number and such you must call me or text me when you arrive. This was all explained and agreed to before the meeting.

Honestly I may have worked with someone else but this was just one more safety request he refused to comply with. Since I was on my phone email I was unable to find his phone number to call him with the 130 emails he had sent me. I emailed him my # more then once. First he said his texts weren't going through, so I told him to call. Then he said he couldn't call or text because his call logs were looked at. I offered to blocked call him and he still refused to give me his number or call or text me. I cannot elaborate on what his reference said but pretty much at this point I felt like I was deliberately being deceived and lied too. There is a lot to this story I cannot write but moral of the story for me is "Stop bending over backwards for people I know will just be trouble in the end".

XOXO

Bristol we have never met but I am truly impressed with your convictions. You are taking the right precautions and more power to you. At the same time I can really see the sweetness of your personality coming through your writing. I would not let one crazy guy ruin your disposition any. Forget about him now and go on being the girl that we have all come to know and love!

Sounds like you made a good call Bristol You went over and beyond what most would do!
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