Do Providers enjoy being in the "Hobby" or not?

TheAntichrist666's Avatar
I have always wondered if Providers actually enjoy being in the hobby.

When I watch TV, I see the media always talking about the poor and exploited Providers who don't want to be there and confess to hating the "hobby" in front of the TV cameras. The media is making me feel some guilt sometimes, they make me feel like I'm some kind of evil guy taking advantage of the poor Provider girl, who apparently in the eyes of the media "hates" the hobby.

Do Providers enjoy the hobby or not?
Champagne Brown's Avatar
I think the one's that are forced into might not enjoy it, but I enjoy what I do and meeting new people.
I actually love the hobby. I have a lot going on in life and I use hobby as a way to relax. A way to enjoy myself, and have some non-stressful adult time. I do think the girls who are in the media are forced or not conducting business like we do here on the boards or possibly even hobby to support bad habits.
I have had more fun being a provider than just working a regular 9 to 5 job. Everyone once in a while I might deal with a bad apple but other than that I have had a great time.

Like the comments above I believe that the ladies who are forced and have pimps are more prone to hate what they do. In any profession who the hell wants to work and then have to give their paycheck to someone who is just using them.
Dorian Gray's Avatar
I have always wondered if Providers actually enjoy being in the hobby.

Do Providers enjoy the hobby or not? Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahaha......
When you go to the massage parlors where there is often a language barrier it is easier to see the ones who really like what they are doing and the ones who are going through the motions.

I was with a honey who couldn't speak english just the other day. She squealed and "O"ed, and then giggled. And after I popped she cleaned me up then lay on top of me and gave me a second massage. I am pretty sure she enjoys her job. None of that was really necessary.
It all depends on the provider.

Me personally, I don't see anything wrong with accepting money for ass.
Women from all backgrounds do it every day. Instead of saying "GFE for $200" it goes a little something like this....

Girl: Hey, can you help me with a bill?
Guy: Sure, I'll come pick you up.
Girl: Cool.

I run this line all the time with guys who are just looking for a friend with benefits.
I'm cool with giving you some pussy as long as you are cool with dishing out cash.

I joined this site because it the concept of P4P seemed so straight forward.
Besides from the occasional wierdo or haggler, this "hobby" suits me very well. This hobby money won't make or break me. I've been working ever since I was a teenager and have never depended on a man to keep a roof over my head.

Now.........if we are talking about a woman who is forced into this, of course she hates it. Or a woman who does this to support a habit, yeah she hates it too. Or a woman who is disabled/mentally challenged and this is the only way she can earn extra income....yeah, she might not like doing this either.

Also take into account the women who do this out of desperation. It's easy to spot them out: women who will see anyone, women who will see a client again after he as caused physical harm to her, women who call themselves "reaching out to the hobby community" because if they go 2 days without seeing a client they will be broke down & busted, women who are afraid to speak their mind because they are afraid of the infamous ECCIE trick threat: "Wow! I was going to book with you. You are now on my DNS list. <trick turns nose into air>" I'm pretty sure they have issues....
TheAntichrist666's Avatar
Thanks for sharing your point of view.
Wakeup's Avatar
It all depends on the provider.

Me personally, I don't see anything wrong with accepting money for ass.
Women from all backgrounds do it every day. Instead of saying "GFE for $200" it goes a little something like this....

Wife: Hey honey, I'm leaving to go shopping for those new shoes I told you about.
Husband: Don't spend too much of my money.
Wife: I won't.
Originally Posted by ArisRose

FTFY...
Eccie Addict's Avatar
There is something about all jobs that one will hate and like. This is not a hobby for a chick, it's a business. They like the money and the freedom. They hate.....

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=545845

Just go down the list lol....
Wakeup's Avatar
My wife is probably the coolest chick on the planet...
Love it! Get my rocks off, and get $$$. Fuck ya!!!
II hate the media and its portrayal of the hobby - giving the impression that all us girls are pimped (okay, a HUGE chunk are) and or trafficked. I am perfectly happy and comfortable with what I do...it started out as a survival method and became a hobby that I enjoy doing - who wouldn't want to travel and stay in upscale rooms for a living anyways?? If these women are miserable, its some underlying issue/causes.
Love it! Get my rocks off, and get $$$. Fuck ya!!! Originally Posted by bustyamy
Hell yea babe..!!! Ive been doin this a long time..and have seen the good and the bad sides, I still love it and I dont plan on going anywhere for a while..they can try to push me away but I just laugh all the way to the bank...
Hell yea babe..!!! Ive been doin this a long time..and have seen the good and the bad sides, I still love it and I dont plan on going anywhere for a while..they can try to push me away but I just laugh all the way to the bank... Originally Posted by AllisonofHouston
Haha, I have laughed all the way to the bank quite a bit myself lol. Its a great feeling!