Slander911.com and other sorrows

First I was on Escortabuser.com Now, apparently Badboyreport.com has picked up the same information and just now I received a text from the Slander911.com people.

This all started when I was drinking and chatting. Not a good idea for BV, I'm told that I made a couple of tentative appointments that escaped me when I sobered up.

One of our local providers posted in the powder room that I was a time waster. Which in my opinion was absolutely correct. Escortabuser.com stole the info from ECCIE (informed speculation) and outed me with one of my real email addresses, my real phone number and my real first name. Holly Shit!! Yawn!! I'm not working at the moment, I'm either retired or unemployed depending on how the market is doing. I'm single, divorced twice and on good speaking terms with both ex's, I have no children, both parents are dead (dad would have gotten a kick out of this) and the fact that I'm a little freaky is no secret in my real life. So fucking what.....

The provider who will remain forever nameless and I have become acquainted. She seems to be a perfectly nice person, that posted a legitimate complaint in an appropriate place. Once I figured all this out, I contacted her, met with her and made amends as best I could. She says she posted in the powder room that I wasn't as much of an asshole as originally stated and I believe her. I no longer drink and chat or post (anywhere).

Most of this story has been told before. In my case "who gives a shit?". Some of you though this could cause major problems. Jewish Lawyer suggested that it was probably a shake down site. My text today I think removes any doubt.

Mods - If any of what follows is against any rule, please accept my apology in advance and if I get edited so be it.

My text today from Slander911,com

"You are slandered on a escort-related website. Personal info is also posted. Chat with us on slander911.com to find out more. Not a sale message case # XXXX.

That text came from 717-6**-9410

I visited the site and found this:

Executive Removal
$924
flat fee

Regular Removal
$429
flat fee

Expedited Removal
$749
flat fee

And I did have a chat with them. My comments are indicated by the arrow -> and Dan is their rep. I hope rules allow this

Now Chatting
Thanks for stopping by! Can I help you with anything?
→let me see my most recent slander please case XXXX
Dan: We found your personal information on escort-related websites called National Blacklist and BadBoyReport. On these sites, escorts can share clients information or slander whoever they don't like.
Dan: However, like in your case, the sites are also being abused to defame people - by making false accusations along with personal information.
→ok
Dan: Have you aware all of this already?
→not this one but others
Dan: We can help you with this issue.
→cool
Dan: We can help you fight off these baseless charges. Are you interested in having the slandering post removed or suppressed?
→what and where are the accusations?
Dan: What we do is trying locate all the slanderous info indexed by Google
Dan: and inform you and try to get the content removed.
→Bad Boy Report?
→It's the same stuff that was one escortabuser.com
Dan: We don't work with the escortabuse site
→ok. where is it then?
Dan: With the website we are familiar, we will do suppression for you
Dan: in the past, we have a few clients who used truthinposting with limited success on escortabuse
Dan: we can help you with the matter after your case is reviewed.
→Dan This is a shake down. You are attempting to extort from me. Eventually this will be illegal. Hopefully you will be sodomized,
Dan: what is a shake down?
Dan: If you decide to use our service, please DO NOT contact the one who posted it if you happen to know who that is.
Dan: there are many online reputation companies that can help you with this matter.
Dan: SEO suppression is a very popular technique in dealing with negative content on the web.

Is there a moral to this story? Mods is there anyway information on ECCIE can be protected? Providers - IMO you have as much right to talk about us as we do about you. You might consider only using the offenders member name unless he was violent, stole from you or some other serious offense. I am forever labeled with the scarlet "T" time waster. But no where on any of these sites does it say that was my infraction. I could have tied, beat and not paid with the same consequence.

You married guys with wives that work in IT I don't know what you're going to do. If any of our lawyer brethren want to make a run at these people but need someone that will let their name be in the paper send me a PM.

And NEVER EVER WASTE A PROVIDER'S TIME.

Moral of the story:

Even though this is a hooker board/John Lifestyle, take this shit seriously before someone else does.

Wow!

May I suggest to anyone experiencing anything like this. Do NOT list the name of the site involved. It only increases their exposure and makes it easier for someone with a grudge to seek them out to casue you harm. Keep the actual names of these sites in PMs

That was Merricanna's favorite site to post about people she had a grudge with, did you piss her off?

You can submit an anonymous report with the FBI re the "alleged" attempt at extortion, interstate wire fraud and I'm sure there are other violations of federal law but it comes down to having provided information to a 3rd party for the express purpose of having sexual relations in exchange fore $. Also, if this or other websites operate in another country then that's another hurdle. It's out there, but so is every post you've placed here (Google your name on here). I also hope that you're not married. Tough break for sure.

You got to be more careful in the future!

You got to be more careful in the future! Originally Posted by jordan9

Thank you Jordan. Another Dallas provider that is still speaking to me, even if she does have a tendency for stating the obvious.

You are right! Very right.

You can submit an anonymous report with the FBI re the "alleged" attempt at extortion, interstate wire fraud and I'm sure there are other violations of federal law but it comes down to having provided information to a 3rd party for the express purpose of having sexual relations in exchange fore $. Also, if this or other websites operate in another country then that's another hurdle. It's out there, but so is every post you've placed here (Google your name on here). I also hope that you're not married. Tough break for sure. Originally Posted by txcwby6

Thanks for the info. I'd rather sic Jewish Lawyer, texas tush hog or shyster john on them. One of my very best friends is also a Jewish Lawyer, but he's in employment law and we don't discuss the hobby.

There's been a rash of these situations lately. One day I might write a thread on specifically how to deal with an Internet defamer (whom I'll call a 'NetFlamer'). (I've written numerous times on the general topic of stalking and harassment.) But for now I'll quickly list a few tips (listed in order) that a person could take. If one tip doesn't work, go on to the next one.

Tips On How to Stop a NetFlamer

1. Follow this part of the doctors' Hippocratic Oath: "First, do no harm." That is, don't do anything that might make the situation worse, like provoking the NetFlamer.

2, NICELY ask who you think posted to remove the post.

3. Carefully read the website's procedure for objecting to a post and utilize it.

4. Pay a lawyer to contact and fend off the NetFlamer.

5. Pay a lawyer to write a 'takedown' letter (like a 'cease and desist' letter) to the NetFlamer and the website.

6. Pay a lawyer to help you file a complaint with your local police department against the NetFlamer for stalking and/or harassment under Texas law.

7. Pay a lawyer to file a lawsuit seeking injunctive relief against the NetFlamer and the website.

8, Pay a lawyer to help you in your divorce.

9. Pay a lawyer to defend you for murdering the NetFlamer.

10. Pay a lawyer to settle your estate after you jump off Reunion Tower.

Thank you SJ. Free legal advice even if 6 of your 10 points did begin with "Pay a lawyer" All good advice and the last three made me laugh out loud. Lawyers get a bad rap, until you need one. Then they come in real handy. I already mentioned that my friend is a bad ass employment lawyer. One of his cases made it on CNN and the front page of the wall street journal. I didn't mention that i had almost married one. We did get married, she did graduate from law school, she just never took the bar. And I don't know how many people can say this, but I have former in laws that are attorneys that still treat me better than some people I can't divorce

Thank you SJ. Free legal advice even if 6 of your 10 points did begin with "Pay a lawyer" All good advice and the last three made me laugh out loud. Lawyers get a bad rap, until you need one. Then they come in real handy. I already mentioned that my friend is a bad ass employment lawyer. One of his cases made it on CNN and the front page of the wall street journal. I didn't mention that i had almost married one. We did get married, she did graduate from law school, she just never took the bar. And I don't know how many people can say this, but I have former in laws that are attorneys that still treat me better than some people I can't divorce Originally Posted by boomvang

Lot's of personal info in that post. Some people just never learn.

Lot's of personal info in that post. Some people just never learn. Originally Posted by boomvang

Yeah, I've already figured out your real name and posted about you on ConfessionsOfShitheadHobbyists .com.

I want to post a retraction of any positive comments I may have made about the legal system and all those that make their livings from stealing peoples souls

Sorry Boomvang didnt mean to point out the obvious about your sorrows. I just really dont believe its anything anyone can do to stop these bottom feeders from sucking the life out of google's indexes. They brag about how totally legal they are, and keep in mind the tort law, defamation cases in the US, and the freedom of speech thingy. Don't think you should waste time or money dealing with them.

sorry this happened to you... If you do decide to fight these idiots you just might give them a documented national public exposure. I know you don't want that no matter how many high friends or connections you have.