What makes a great session

I always wonder what makes a great session for a provider. Is it someone that is sexually compatible with you and that y’all having fun together what kind of things make your session enjoyable for you to have pleasure in it besides work and what are some things guys can do to make your session pleasurable for you.

I would say you’re asking the wrong question but I’ll refrain. You do realize that 99% of these ladies are not having great sex with clients and it’s a show, performance, etc. you aren’t really turning them out and being the greatest dick they’ve had. Hell likely not the greatest dick that day and for some that hour. If you think women are looking at this like a cool hook up with a guy they are attracted to and wanna give themselves to you have a wrong perspective on what’s going on.

If the women are honest the answer would be something like
You’re on time
You pay as expected
You give extra money above the agreed amount
You’re clean and not off putting
You don’t last too long and don’t irritate the pussy because there’s more dicks coming
You get out and that you come back with more money

This is a job not a date.

This is a job not a date. Originally Posted by 1blackman1

That's the most honest thing I've read in a very long time.

I’ve been at this quite some time. For dudes to not understand what’s going on still surprises me.

1Blackman1 is 100% correct. I’ve been at this 40 years+
I saw one provider well known here that I saw for at least 10 years. After the first couple of years she rarely took my money and often asked me to stay over. Things were different with her, but that was kinda like a unicorn. RIP

I would say you’re asking the wrong question but I’ll refrain. You do realize that 99% of these ladies are not having great sex with clients and it’s a show, performance, etc. you aren’t really turning them out and being the greatest dick they’ve had. Hell likely not the greatest dick that day and for some that hour. If you think women are looking at this like a cool hook up with a guy they are attracted to and wanna give themselves to you have a wrong perspective on what’s going on.

If the women are honest the answer would be something like
You’re on time
You pay as expected
You give extra money above the agreed amount
You’re clean and not off putting
You don’t last too long and don’t irritate the pussy because there’s more dicks coming
You get out and that you come back with more money

This is a job not a date. Originally Posted by 1blackman1

dead on

I would say you’re asking the wrong question but I’ll refrain. You do realize that 99% of these ladies are not having great sex with clients and it’s a show, performance, etc. you aren’t really turning them out and being the greatest dick they’ve had. Hell likely not the greatest dick that day and for some that hour. If you think women are looking at this like a cool hook up with a guy they are attracted to and wanna give themselves to you have a wrong perspective on what’s going on.

If the women are honest the answer would be something like
You’re on time
You pay as expected
You give extra money above the agreed amount
You’re clean and not off putting
You don’t last too long and don’t irritate the pussy because there’s more dicks coming
You get out and that you come back with more money

This is a job not a date. Originally Posted by 1blackman1

Excellent points. The only thing I might add is a genuine expression of Thanks from the client for the time and effort spent.

I think men that are gentlemen make the session better. Not some asshole that does this 2-4 times a week and wants to pick about every little thing but wants to only pay the bare minimum.

Guys, the OP was simply trying to get some conversation going. If all you want to do is blast him, why comment?

We all know this is a job for the ladies, but we also know that you can tell when you "click" with someone....its mostly a comfort with the other person. We all know that happens. I have seen many over the years that I have clicked with, and we have hung out outside of the hobby....sometimes something more happened, but if I called them specifically for an appt, then it was business...and I respected that.

And yes, we did have a mutual comfort with each other... I had several well know ladies this has happened with over the years too... So to me, this is what makes for a more enjoyable session.

Ideally, I can forget it's business and it becomes time spent with a sensuous, responsive women and we both enjoy what happens. Yes, I know it's her business, but not every provider treats me like a job. Maybe that's nothing more than suspension of disbelief. All I know is sometimes it's obviously work. Other times it's great time with a lady.

Showing up on time, clean and friendly has made the majority of my sessions pleasant.A lady with a nice personality will appreciate you treating her with respect. The mood of a lady determines a lot about the session. If you come in with bad energy, she is going to probably return it to you.

I’ve been at this quite some time. For dudes to not understand what’s going on still surprises me. Originally Posted by 1blackman1