Ok second post about this. When you private message a girl. They say do you have references? I'm like no I'm new. How do you even hook up with a girl on here?? I know some do newbies but I'm sorry. Not the ones for me.
Check the thread for newbie friendly providers. Usually found int the Request & ISO Forum. You not specific as to what city you're in. Austin does not have one. Not sure why they don't.