I was reading another site and the complaint that he gave (loaned/advanced) a woman some money in exchange for services in the future. She (they) reneged on the agreement. Some terrible things were said. We have some very classy ladies on this site who seem very accomodating and professional. This really isn't a guy question unless you know such a woman. This is for those special ladies. Would you honor a contract for pussy in the future for money now? Would you make such a contract for either money or services?
Hell no... I know alot of nice fellas that would come through for me if needed but those who know me know I would only ask for help if it was an emergency. I make money just like a regular person so I can afford to pay for things that come with owning a car/ house ext.
I had it work once. I showed up at a girls incall (second or third time I'd seen her), had already made the donation, and about half way through the fun and games, she started her period. Not really my thing, but she was seriously distressed about it. She gave me half my donation back and I went on my way...she didn't even offer to finish me off manually or orally. Just before I got home, she called and apologized for the way she rushed me off and promised to 'take care of me next time.' Being as we'd clicked previously, I gave her another chance a couple weeks later. She never said a word about "taking care of me" this time, but when I put down the donation, she gave me half back and said...I owe you from last time. Sweet! Not only did was I going to get laid 1 & 1/2 times for the price of once, but we ended up going WAY over the hour as we worked our way through multiple positions and pops. When I got out to my car, I realized I'd been in her place for almost 3 hours...holy shit, well worth the time and money, and she MORE than fulfilled her earlier promise. Granted, this is not the norm, but it does occasionally happen.
I have been hobbying for many years and developed close (business/personal) relationships with many ladys. There is always a mutual respect and trust. I think they have enough respect for me to never ask for a loan and I respect them enough to never ask for a freebie..
I have had on occaison been asked for an extra $50-100 for a session...but it always comes with extra time.