I'm with BCG, its not about the destination, its the journey. I do 30 min on first meet if I am doubtful in a first meet but then I approach that meeting as a vetting because I am pretty damned picky. Hell it takes me 5 minutes to take my shoes off if I don't wear tennies without a velcro strap!
Originally Posted by tlswants
I generally read a lot of reviews for my vetting process, and I won't book if the reviews don't indicate that I'll get the level of service I want (or if there aren't any reviews), but ok... that strategy makes a certain amount of sense.
I suppose (if the lady is willing), another "option" would be something along the lines of "I'll commit to thirty minutes, but if the chemistry is right and we're really enjoying each other I might want to extend our visit an additional 30-60 minutes...". (That might even give her "motivation" to make sure you enjoy yourself, unless she's into "take the money and run"...)
Cheers,
bcg