Are you ever out on a date. Drinks are over, dinner is over, maybe you're having dessert or a second round of drinks...you've exchanged all the back ground. The family histories. Your love life timeline. Talked about music, movies, the Austin dating scene...
And now you just want to say "can you suck my cock & let me take you home now"?
There is good and bad in the hobby & in dating...sometimes I wish we could switch in the middle & just jump past all the courtship preliminaries...."time for you to be on your back, we've talked long enough".