Interaction or sex?

What is your main reason for seeing a provider is it interaction with a lady or is it just for the sex?
Do you want to get to know the lady or could you care less and lets get it on?
Or it could be a combination of the two.

I know when I was younger it was the excitement of meeting another lady and the sex but as ive grown older I find myself enjoying the interaction between each other and getting to know somebody more and more and its less about the notches on my gun holster.

To me its gotten to be the total package and the only way to see and understand a woman is to see her several times.

Sort of like the song a little less talk and a lot more action or visa versa?

And for the ladies would you rather us visit and get to know you or pay the money and go on with your life?

The interaction is part of the sex! I hate mechanical.

Defiantly a combination. I like and enjoy a little mind interaction.

Since I never book less than a hour and often like to incorporate dinner, concerts, sporting events, movies and even overnights into my appointments with the girls, it's obvious that my answer is the interaction. I like to treat the lady like a lady and it's great when we can make a connection on another level. I would like to think that most of the girls I see would agree.

From this day forward, strict donation, sex, leave.

It has to be interaction. I am done with the sex and foreplay within two minutes. My 1.3" of dangling is quick to the trigger.

Interactive sex is nice.

Both is good, but it depends on the length of the appointment. The length of the appointment depends on the emptiness of my wallet.

Well, I don't just want a cold, dead, fish of a lady laying there while I give her the wood. I want my partner to be actively involved. When I play, I want her to have as much fun as I do. That is why I like to communicate with her ahead of time to find out her interests and level of interaction. That is also why I suggest role playing or fantasy play. It is so much better if two active participants are involved; otherwise, I'd just watch porn and use my hand. Having said that, I'm not looking to date the girls or be their BF, so I like to keep it on a passionately professional level.

I know when I was younger it was the excitement of meeting another lady and the sex but as ive grown older I find myself enjoying the interaction between each other and getting to know somebody more and more and its less about the notches on my gun holster. Originally Posted by wildwooly1

This is exactly how it is with me. I've been in the hobby for more than 35 years but as I have gotten older, I like the interaction much more than the sex. Also, owing to some health issues, I have some problems in the sex area. However, as I tell the ladies "just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I don't like to read the menu". If the provider is fun and interesting to talk to, I will see them again, if not I'll find someone else.

Mark

Robot sex sucks.

As I continue to play in the hobby, I tend favor interaction, then the sex. I do my research to see if I would click with ladies. Reviews from fellow hobbyist help in the research process. I do enjoy the interaction, then the sex. If the sex was not great, NO interaction would be worth the effort.

Depends on ones mood and who you ae with. There are some people you want to and don't mind putting in the effort and enjoying both. There are other times when one just wants to pop one off and not worry about cuddling and small talk.

So, both. All depends on the day.

interaction is a must mechanical sucks

I'm greedy--I want both.

Robot sex sucks. Originally Posted by i'va biggen

My thoughts exactly.