Type of outcall influence if provider will see you?

So I've been out of the hobby game for about a year due to a new relationship. Now I want to get back in, but I didn't see many before and some my old references have retired.

For a new client does a provider feel more comfortable seeing them if it's an outcall to a high end hotel. Would they feel more comfortable seeing a new client at a four seasons or ritz instead of a 3 star hotel? Lastly, would a 5 star hotel be better than seeing a new client at their own incall?

I'm asking because I used to live in Dallas and I will be visiting there in a couple weeks for the holidays. I plan on getting a hotel and wondering if booking a suite at a 5 star would increase my chances of providers seeing me if only one of my references comes through since most of the providers I've been eyeing need 2.

That is very much an "it depends upon the lady" answer.

Best to contact a couple you are interested in, explain your situation as you did here, and see what might work for them.

Going to see a client is what makes it outcall. Not whether it's a house or hotel.

Going to see a client is what makes it outcall. Not whether it's a house or hotel.

KayC, read it again, he said "their own incall". No mention of house versus hotel. I'm sure he appreciates your help though. Originally Posted by KayC_K

That is very much an "it depends upon the lady" answer.

Best to contact a couple you are interested in, explain your situation as you did here, and see what might work for them.

This!! Originally Posted by Old-T

Maybe you should post this in Dallas and you can get direct answers from interested parties...although you might get answers like the lovely KayC gave you...

Going to see a client is what makes it outcall. Not whether it's a house or hotel. Originally Posted by KayC_K

You misunderstood me. I meant would a provider feel more comfortable seeing a new client at that providers own incall compared to seeing that new client in a high end hotel (outcall).

I prefer seeing new clients at my apartment incall.
I feel more in control and comfortable at my place. I have a better grip of all the possible variables too.

After the first session I have no reservations about going to a hotel, motel, or the clients home.

Not to mention, a provider's private incall is usually better stocked for um.. activities.

Once you get to 3* and above, there really isn't much difference to most people.

I say, get a hotel that is in your budget(or under and hobby more), close to your personal plans, and just go out to see a lady at her place. I personally prefer to sleep in a bed that is all mine, but you might like a lady's perfume to linger on your sheets.

Work on getting your references up ahead of time. That will be the most limiting factor in your hobby success.

I don't really care where you are staying, as long as it's not the crappiest part of town. Which hotel you pick doesn't make a damn bit of difference.

It's all about whether I think you have enough screening info, reasonable conversation, vibes, gut, etc. on whatever I am using to make sure YOU are okay to see, not your "things".

I appreciate all the responses everyone.