Hair pulling and ass slapping?

Iced in and growing tired of football.

I see so much pulling of women's hair and slapping of their asses in porn -- activities that aren't hard enough to qualify as S&M but that do appear to please either or both of the participants.

I've never tried either -- too much fear of hearing "ouch," or "don't do that" and screwing up the session. I don't think it would do much for me, but if a woman likes it, I'd certainly do what I could to please her. Are they something that women in general enjoy? If you do either during a session, what's the etiquette: ask beforehand, wait for her to ask for it, or just do it?

Ass slapping is not polite and I doubt many women really enjoy this activity. I would never condone a guy slapping my ass, I am more of a sweet love maker.

I cannot imagine hitting a woman for any reason short of self-defense. It is just not part of love making. Guess I am old school.

I cannot imagine hitting a woman for any reason short of self-defense. It is just not part of love making. Guess I am old school. Originally Posted by Abraham

Well-spoken!
My sentiments exactly.

if something is important to me...
i will include it on my 411 webpage...
(no biting..no slapping..no scratching..no hair pulling..)
i ask the gentlemen to please read my webpage...
i will also ask the gentlemen to tell me what they DO NOT like...
because what NOT to do...
is every bit as important as what TO DO...

I enjoy hair pulling in doggie (as well as choking) but I don't like hard ass slaps. There is an art to ass slapping that makes it sensual and not painful. I've only met a handful of men who could do it!

And by all means, ask before you do it or wait for the provider to ask if she is kinky enough. You don't want to end up getting bitch-slapped and beat down in the middle of doggie. Haha.

I enjoy hair pulling in doggie (as well as choking) but I don't like hard ass slaps. There is an art to ass slapping that makes it sensual and not painful. I've only met a handful of men who could do it!

And by all means, ask before you do it or wait for the provider to ask if she is kinky enough. You don't want to end up getting bitch-slapped and beat down in the middle of doggie. Haha. Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Very well said BSB. I personally enjoy things getting a little worked up with some hair pulling, ass slapping and light choking. Mind you, it isn't with everyone and I don't want it ALL the time. Just when I am feeling really feisty and am incredibly horny. I have ONE someone in mind There needs to be chemistry, familiarity and trust. I hate a "limp" smack on the ass but get pissed when it's done and it hurts. No bruises allowed. I never thought of it as an art, but you are right, it is.

[QUOTE=Kendall4U;1054679024]Very well said BSB. I personally enjoy things getting a little worked up with some hair pulling, ass slapping and light choking. Mind you, it isn't with everyone and I don't want it ALL the time. Just when I am feeling really feisty and am incredibly horny. I have ONE someone in mind There needs to be chemistry, familiarity and trust. I hate a "limp" smack on the ass but get pissed when it's done and it hurts. No bruises allowed. I never thought of it as an art, but you are right, it is.[/QUOTE]

My artistic skills are in the infancy stages. I do have chemistry with some providers to that extent, but usually my feeble attempts at the activities you mentioned results in the provider and I having a big laugh. That humor itself contributes to the GFE in an odd way.

Ass slapping is not polite and I doubt many women really enjoy this activity. I would never condone a guy slapping my ass, I am more of a sweet love maker. Originally Posted by SweaterPuppies

So the TRUTH finally comes out.

(sorry, couldn't resist)

A good hiney slap is not beating on a woman especially if she ASKS for it. And when you have a lady in doggie who throws her hair back it's usually a good sign she's asking for a hair pull. But as stated before it has to be done right. I'm no expert on the ass slap. But with hair pulling, close to the scalp and just enough pull 'til she lets out a moan.

Yeah it might look cool and spotaneous in porn but of course its all coreographed and scripted. I would definitely ask beforehand.

So the TRUTH finally comes out.

(sorry, couldn't resist) Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Haha! I laughed so hard that Egg Nog came out my nose.

Haha! I laughed so hard that Egg Nog came out my nose. Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

I wonder which provider fucked up when she posted under the wrong handle.

Were not talkin donkey punchin!

I can't see doing this outta the blue with just anyone butt with the right ONE this can be very exciting and passionate.

As previously stated, there HAS to be a mutual trust and respect.......and some ornery-ness

ThatMarginallyAttractiveNurse, this is my only handle. Yes, I am female. Not sure why that is so amusing to you…?

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