Did I get ripped off at the strip club or was it my own damn fault?

I asked this stripper for a lap dance and she told me that it was $25 per song. I had two shots of tequila start to kick in and wasn't paying attention. This was only my second time going to a strip club so I was used to the chick telling me when a dance was up. She ended up charging me $100 and there is no way grinding on a dude for 12 minutes without letting him touch ass or tits is worth that much. It pissed me off, but whatever... lesson learned. Is it common for a chick to expect you to count the songs?

it's common for Dancers to try and rip you off, if you don't establish a song count upfront, or after each song has passed.

you should have refused to pay more than 2 songs worth.. she might "tell on you", but so what? worse that can happen is you are asked to leave.. and you should be happy to leave after that.

I've had that shit attempted on me a few times, and have never allowed myself to get shorn like a Sheep.

Yes, it's common for strippers to scam drunk guys out of money.

It's the strippers sworn duty to separate a fucktard and his money. The OP allowed the stripper to take his money.

You should know the strippers motto. You won't get laid but you sure are going to get fucked. She just did her job.

Yeah that's why they're there.. to make maximum $$$$... I had a girl try that in Canada once, I laughed at her, she got pissed and told the bouncer. I was there with 4 other guys, he thought better of it and left us alone. It wasn't that we were tough guys, it was we were all spending plenty of dough and didn't want to lose the $$$.

Strip clubs & strippers prey on drunk morons all the time...

No surprises here... You just learned an expensive lesson, that's all. Odds are you won't do it again...butt, I wouldn't bet on it!!

You got out of it cheap, learn your lesson and stay away, let these providers rip you off on BP or do your research and get laid on Eccie.

You got out of it cheap, learn your lesson and stay away, let these providers rip you off on BP or do your research and get laid on Eccie. Originally Posted by loveitdou

What he said!

Ohh, I definitely learned my lesson. I should have just refused to pay, but I didn't really have time to think it through. I probably won't go to a strip club for a while any way, I mostly just wanted the experience. I suppose getting ripped off is part of the experience and I won't let it happen a second time.

Once I discovered escorts I lost any interest in strip clubs.
(Unless the lady I am with wants to go and find a stripper to join us).

OP,

Ignoring that this type of thing has been going on for thousands of years, back to hotels in caves times, it's still a first time thing for any particular guy when it first happens to them. Simply smile about a lesson learned.

Old-T,
Sometimes when strippers become hookers, old habits are hard to break.

I asked this stripper for a lap dance and she told me that it was $25 per song. I had two shots of tequila start to kick in and wasn't paying attention. This was only my second time going to a strip club so I was used to the chick telling me when a dance was up. She ended up charging me $100 and there is no way grinding on a dude for 12 minutes without letting him touch ass or tits is worth that much. It pissed me off, but whatever... lesson learned. Is it common for a chick to expect you to count the songs? Originally Posted by dratsab

Yes. And since many strip joints, use the Shortened versions of songs, so they 'can get in more songs per dance', they make more money over that 12-15 minute period. BITD at a lap dance parlor out in Portsmouth Va, i had a gal try that after i requested a 3 song dance.. Had the DJ deliberately play the 'shortened' version so instead of 3.44, 4.41 and 4,55 for each song (over 11 min total), she had barely 3 min for EACH song.. After that i complained to management, and told tem if i ever saw the same sort of ripping off, i would not just refuse to come back myself, but i would spread word on base, that his establishment WAS A rip off and to avoid it like the plague..
SHE and the DJ got let go, cause she had apparently ripped off other customers that way..

Once I discovered escorts I lost any interest in strip clubs.
(Unless the lady I am with wants to go and find a stripper to join us). Originally Posted by Old-T

I agree. Why pay for the 'fantasy of getting laid' when you can have the real thing.

I agree strip clubs are a waste, only go with a group and mostly drink and chill. Don't pay the girls smh mind since they see all men there as losers anyways.

Don't wanna come off harsh but I only go to strip clubs in the ghetto since the women know you try to rip a man off they gonna feel it. One thing I know about the hood is the business owners are scared of ripping off customers regardless of what public.percepfion maybe.

I went to a nice spot last night pure drunk dudes and a whole bunch of strippers came in once I left. They prey on older men who are clean cut and professional, they know the young guys ain't having thst crap.

No scamming around here. I always felt dances were a waste, I'd rather just pay and hit then spend and look at s girl grinding on me.

I had a stripper try to pick pocket me during a dance. All she managed to get was a wrapped condom. Made me wonder how many guys she's gotten away with it on.