That Magic Moment

To the Ladies!

It is the end of the year and we reflect.

Do you ever reflect on that moment of clarity when you decided to become an Escort?

Was it an oh doh! moment?

Was it planned or happenstance?

Or did you wake up one morning after an amazing party with wads of cash and think... yeah! i can dig this!

(this Thread is approved for ThreAD content.

Do you "Ladies" ever reflect on that moment of "clarity" when you decided to become an Escort? Originally Posted by harkontume

Clarity? If you had a daughter and she chose to be a whore would you feel it was a moment of clarity?

Google the subject. Can you get the real reasons or truth from whores here actively seeking to make money?

Is someone going to go see the whore that states "I have a monkey on my back and the need for money to feed it drove me to suck cock and more"

or the one that states " I was sexually abused by male family members growing up and became desensitized to the act and the damage to my mental health overwhelms my ability to work and this is the only thing I can do to feed myself and my children"

or " I was broke and afraid because i felt there would always be someone to take care of me and then he left."

Throw out all the studies on the subject done in countries where prostitution is legal or tolerated without stringent laws that are enforced and limit it here to the US and the most common reason is drugs and coercion.

But you don't really want the truth do you?

Of course a few will say they "made the choice" and claim some reason that might help their business.....

They will be of a certain "type" though most likely...

Commence with the ads!

Really man?
Where in that post did you find me looking for "truth"?

Can't there be some light sexy conversation?

I even opened it up for "threADS.


This is why I don't post much anymore.
It's not fun.

And now others will rag on you.. which isn't fun either.

Crap... it's all just crap now.

To the Ladies!

It is the end of the year and we reflect.

Do you ever reflect on that moment of clarity when you decided to become an Escort?

Was it an oh doh! moment?

Was it planned or happenstance?

Or did you wake up one morning after an amazing party with wads of cash and think... yeah! i can dig this!

(this Thread is approved for ThreAD content. Originally Posted by harkontume

*blatently ignoring the negativity*

Happenstance for sure- when it all started I was looking for sexual adventure and the few extra bucks was just an added bonus- honestly found it quite silly and very lightheartedly fun.

Ill end with some threAD material
And a Happy Holidays to all my Hobby friends

After having lived overseas where prostitution is legal, this has always been a fantasy of mine. I got into the hobby when I realized that divorce was inevitable and that I was going to need to support myself (I didn't want maintenance and child support - I.e. I didn't want his money). Even though I had a degree, I had been a full-time mom for almost ten years and knew that finding a job that paid well enough to make ends meet would be tough. Now I make six figures a year, my kids don't have to go to after-school programs, I can buy them what they want, take them on vacations, buy $2k puppies on a whim, work when I want, see whomever I choose, fund my RW small business, and I make people happy doing it. And this time of year, I get to give back (random acts of kindness) without even worrying about how much I'm spending on others.

^^^^^^^GOOD on ya lady!!!^^^^^^^^^

I was working as a medical aid at the time when a gay friend of mine introduced me to his TS friend. We all had a couple of drinks together and got along well. The TS told me over drinks that she was a provider. Anyways the next day I was off and she called me. The reason why is because her client wanted a normal woman and a TS at the same time. So that's how much first session went down. I basically danced naked for 20 mins naked and got some good money. I knew that I can become damn good at this and so I have.

*blatently ignoring the negativity*

Happenstance for sure- when it all started I was looking for sexual adventure and the few extra bucks was just an added bonus- honestly found it quite silly and very lightheartedly fun.
Originally Posted by GingerLyn Harte

+1

I was in the midst of sexual exploration a year after losing my virginity (late bloomer at 21) and began working at an adult store. I got interested in doing porn, jumped into that. Then came across Backpage one day and got curious. I was too nervy to post in the escort section but I began posting in "Dom and fetish" and started being introduced and playing in the kink realm. I only did massage and fetish play for the first 6 months or so. A little bit after doing porn shoots I got more comfortable with escorting, and here I am. I've always had a blast because I went into it to have a blast. Almost three years later I still can't get over the fact that I make most of my living this way and get to meet all kinds of interesting, unique, and diverse people! We are such fascinating beings. I view it as much anthropological as it is trading cash for intimate encounters.

+1

I was in the midst of sexual exploration a year after losing my virginity (late bloomer at 21) and began working at an adult store. I got interested in doing porn, jumped into that. Then came across Backpage one day and got curious. I was too nervy to post in the escort section but I began posting in "Dom and fetish" and started being introduced and playing in the kink realm. I only did massage and fetish play for the first 6 months or so. A little bit after doing porn shoots I got more comfortable with escorting, and here I am. I've always had a blast because I went into it to have a blast. Almost three years later I still can't get over the fact that I make most of my living this way and get to meet all kinds of interesting, unique, and diverse people! We are such fascinating beings. I view it as much anthropological as it is trading cash for intimate encounters. Originally Posted by JadeRose

and im so glad you did !!

I was working as a medical aid at the time when a gay friend of mine introduced me to his TS friend. We all had a couple of drinks together and got along well. The TS told me over drinks that she was a provider. Anyways the next day I was off and she called me. The reason why is because her client wanted a normal woman and a TS at the same time. So that's how much first session went down. I basically danced naked for 20 mins naked and got some good money. I knew that I can become damn good at this and so I have. Originally Posted by FirePhoenix

damn FP. didnt know you had all that going on. we just might have to meat

I had a wonderful childhood and still have a great relationship with my parents (who are still married) and grandparents (also still married). No history of abuse or even disfunction. No drug problems, no bankruptcy, no mental illness.

I have a full time career that I love and give myself to 1000 percent but I am not fairly compensated for the amount and quality of work I do.

Sex work has been a kind of dream job or at least a consideration for me for a long time. I am a super slut and love to relate to all kinds of people sexually. Might as well make sure I have sound financial footing while doing something I love.

I have found this work to be very empowering and uplifting. I truly enjoy it and most of the people I have met. I have never had traditional views/beliefs about sex so this community sometimes feels like a place where my polyamorous ass can find some acceptance.

I feel a little cognitive dissonance in needing so much secrecy because I normally try to live my life authentically and be true to who I am and open about it. Like coming out of the closet as gay- if everyone stays closeted change will be toooooo sloooow. I would like to get more involved politically in work to legalize prostitution and improve perceptions of sex work and sex workers. Someday I'll write a book but it'll have to wait until I retire lol

My 2 cents

This is a subject of interest for me. I avoid pandering personally. However, i like to meet newbie providers. I am happy to hear these positive, personal stories about the crossover into providerhood.

Can't there be some light sexy conversation? Originally Posted by harkontume

I started because my friend is a hobbyist and thought this would be a side gig for student loans/savings that I'd actually enjoy, given how much I love sex. I've only been around two weeks but this is just as fun as I thought it would be! Good for my self esteem, good for my wallet, good for working on conversational skills, all around good time so far.

And for the record, I had a great childhood and am not hooked on drugs. That's a crap stereotype.

I became a John because dating women is a pain in the ass and frankly yall are crazy. I just wanted to get laid and do dirty things to yall. I also became a Stunt Cock for Swingers so I could do every sex act I wanted too. I have done it all. So therefore my days seeing Providers are very limited and I gave up on Swingers 7 years ago.