There is many risks associated with sex work and I do not want to be playing on the same field as ladies that have no respect for themselves and others. One's that lie, scam, and steal and think it's ok. Or the one's that have walked down paths less traveled to a world of Removed and abuse of Removed GL Violation I can't imagine all the bad decisions that have been made by all that provide when out of their minds. I have been told horror stories and read many from here as well. You guys really have to do your research. It blows my mind that the little head takes over and causes poor judgement and puts you guys in a shady situation, at a shady motel, being a meal ticket for a bitch that eats at a Soup Kitchen so she can afford her Removed or a government high, Removed. Does it not bother you guys?
The classy ladies I have been speaking with feel the same way and have strayed from here because of the drama and variety found on here. I was recently visited by a pro hobbyist when my website and showcase clearly states that I do not see them. I have upset several people during the screening process for that fact as well, sorry it's just how I conduct business. First thing I did was set a Dr's appointment, 4 weeks after my last one instead of the normal 8-10 weeks. Still seeing the male nurse after hours
So at least one good thing come out of it. That is just how cautious I am, and respectful of others. I was at a SAA meeting several months ago and there was a guest speaker. That is what changed my whole outlook on all of this. She used to be a sex worker here in Capital District for several years. She started feeling bad and didn't know why, was still forced to meet a quota daily and had no insurance to go see a Dr. She spent 2 years after that trying to break free from her Pimp/Abuser. She was removed from the situation by LE and begged them to help her. She was tested in the county jail and was found to have Hep C, chlamydia, and was HIV positive. For almost 5 years she was beaten and brutally raped throughout the day. She said it is hard for her to sleep at night since she found out because she had exposed several hundred guys and other girls to it. She recalled all the times she had to spit blood out of her mouth after giving head from the constant busted lips she had to deal with. Having guys eat her out with just a tampon shoved in to stop obvious bleeding, and her anal orifice always torn and ripped from Greek. I commend this lady for the strength it takes being a guest speaker and sharing her stories, but it almost ruined it for everyone here. It was hard to even post after hearing all of this.
They are testing known hookers in the jails now to help stop the spread of this horrible disease. If caught posting for sexual services after receiving an HIV+ status you are automatically charged with attempted murder or AWDW. So at least LE has a hand in protecting us all. A bordering county of Albany has the 3rd highest STD rate in New York.
I am a very busy business professional and use this as actual dating and satisfaction for myself as well. I love meeting new people and establishing long lasting relationships, not meeting with guys that just want something warm and wet. If that is your prerogative, I am happy for you, I am sure you are aware of the risk you are taking. Taking risk with my life is not something I have done or will ever do. If it takes pissing off a few people here and there to keep myself safe, you better believe that I don't mind. IMHO I would only spend time with ones that have something to lose. Tried and proven on here with several ladies, the "Save a Hoe" projects don't work. Some girls want nothing more out of life than to be spread wide open and spend man's money. Looks fade, skin sags, knowledge lasts a lifetime.
And before anyone thinks I am talking about them... this is truly how I feel about the misfits of this world. Sadly people will be offended due to guilt as they read, just making it clear to all the gentlemen out here, why share a meal or your bed with Soup Kitchen quality when you enjoy the finer things in life and are looking for others that do as well. There is great quality on Eccie, but you also have cesspools of filth as well.
