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One of my biggest issues is when the guys try to compare body types to other providers... I find it to be rude.... Why? Because everyone is different and unique in their on way....

Well, for those who don't have showcases or webpages, potential client need some idea of what you look like. Just sayin'.

IMHO, I think that all women are beautiful in their own way. I can appreciate all body types. Everything from thin waifs to muscular to BBW. It's all good as far as I am concerned. Variety is the spice of life.

One of my biggest issues is when the guys try to compare body types to other providers... I find it to be rude.... Why? Because everyone is different and unique in their on way.... Originally Posted by lovely76

I'm not really sure I am interpreting the activity in the context in which you want responders to post.

I think it's generally understood that nearly all hobbyists have a preferred body type.

That being said, it's been my experience that mature and experienced hobbyists don't limit themselves to providers who have that particular body type.

I'll use my self as an example. I prefer small Asian spinners under 5'2" and 105 pounds who have all natural breasts that are no larger than 34B. However, my list of favorite providers include very tiny ladies to super-size BBWs. FYI, hobbyists who pass up a lady just because she is a BBW are rejecting a segment of providers that have been a source of wonderful experiences.

Any hobbyist who compares physical attributes as a comparison tool when speaking to a provider is simply rude, crude and ignorant ... in my opinion. I've been the hobby for about 25 years and it's been my experience that a provider's attitude is far more important than her physical attributes.

Regretfully, manners and civil behavior are no longer respected and sought after traits in America any longer. Those who are respectful and mannerly are deemed to be weak and without value in our society that values, rewards, and practices aggression, dishonesty and rudeness on a daily basis.

I don't think a lot of guys understand how it affects the lady or their business.. especially when they bash a girl, flat out.

Do you know how many times I've seen "droopy, saggy, b cups"? Do any of the guys who say this, think that I suffer from mild body dismorphic disorder, every since I went from 230lbs. to 140lbs? No. And, it affects me, but I've learned to just live with it. In this field, you either take it with a grain of salt, you ignore it, or you capitalize on it. Since people complain about my tits, I no longer show them. If they complain about your hair, don't show your face. If they don't like you nude, put some clothes on. Or.. keep on getting it how you live.

The guys who feel like they have to be mean.. screw 'em. & not in the most literal of ways. If the ladies could speak on the things they saw - I think a lot of the guys might pipe down.. the statements are getting to be a bit callous, though. It's something I don't understand.

We can't make any of you feel good, if you wont allow us to feel good about ourselves.. But, in every essence of the situation, you HAVE to feel good about YOURSELF, first.. if you don't.. any comparison will bring you to your knees. I'm just sayin'.

I must agree, that anyone passing on any of the ladies just because of body type or body issues is missing out on great opportunities. I would hate to think providers were determining if they should see me or not because of body type. I would be a loser. I've been with extremely small ladies to bbw and each and everyone one with a few exceptions have been very enjoyable. The exceptions were not related to body type, but more personality or lack thereof. Never judge a book by it's cover! You may miss out on some very fine reading.

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Sorry, I have to agree with Charles on this one, from reading the OP's post, it seems like she doesn't want to be compared to others because she's unique.
While I'll agree to some point, if you don't have recent pictures the only way to describe you to others may be "She has an ass like XX's and breasts kinda like YY's".
I don't see anything rude or disrespectful about it.