Newbie with a date scheduled tomorrow, nervous!

Hi everyone, my boyfriend and I have our first appointment tomorrow with an escort we found here and also on P411. This is the first time for me using a provider. He is from London and has done it before. I'm frankly scared shitless of getting arrested. She is coming to his apt. which is in a very upscale complex downtown. How do we know for sure she isn't LE? Are there some quick ways to tell?

Unfortunately, YOU would have to be screened before we could tell you, hon, and since this is your first post... I'll give you some leeway.

How thoroughly did she screen your boyfriend, and has she had any communication with you to make sure that this is what you want? I always talk to the lady, too, when couples are involved to make sure that everyone is on the same page.

Did your boyfriend make the choice? Did you BOTH research her thoroughly? Is she definitely couple-friendly?

If she is on ECCIE AND P411 AND has an established personal website AND multiple good reviews from well-known gents AND posts in the forums, I'd say you're fine. Once you all get together in the same room and are chatting (perhaps over a relaxing glass of wine to calm the nerves), feel free to express your concerns and make sure that everything that is to transpire will fall within your comfort zone. Keep an open mind, but don't be afraid to say "No," just as the provider should be allowed to refrain from activities that she doesn't enjoy. She'll probably do the steering, so relax and enjoy the adventure.

Shouldn't this be in the co-ed section instead of the ISO?

Shouldn't this be in the co-ed section instead of the ISO? Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

Would be better there for more input, yep. Perhaps the OP (original poster) might consider asking the mods (moderators) to move it? Hit the little red triangle beneath the avatar space to the left and report your post as being misplaced, or PM (personal message) a mod. Their names are located at the beginning of the forum.

I agree with what Ms Fancy says. Also Ms Cyndi has a valid point.

Fancy, thank you for your reply and insight. I have a P411 account and have been lusting after this provider since last September, she is gorgeous. He has always been skittish about going this route to have a threesome due to LE. She has a P411, Euro, and Eccie with a few great reviews. She also has on her profile that she teams up with a very known and popular provider in houston. I'm thinking of she was LE this other provider would have called out her ad by now. I don't know what checking she did on my boyfriend, I have a P411 account so maybe that was enough for her. She is very aware of what we want, and what I want. The only restriction I have is he can't kiss her, that's it. Again, thank you for your advice, and by the way, you are very sexy

Moved to CO-ED

Heh....this should be interesting....

Heh....this should be interesting.... Originally Posted by Russ38

WTF?
Did SHE say she has a P411 account? That she was nervous about LE, her boyfriend has seen providers but is skittish... Something is off here.
Timeline? First person vernacular? Just feels... OFF.

Seriously, I came here for advice, not to be picked at.

Fancy gave you the best advice you're probably going to get. Did you ask her doubles partner about her? If you don't want to be picked at, leave now. Ijs

The bottom line is this hobby always involves some level of risk. Even if you don;t mention money for sex, LE can arrest you. It is your word against a cop's. Who is the judge going to believe?

No Venus I didn't check with her doubles parter, I wasn't sure about the etiquette of doing that? Is it ok?

I wasn't sure about the etiquette of doing that? Is it ok? Originally Posted by Sxyamazon

Etiquette goes both ways around here dear....do you have pictures? If so, send them to me and I'll make sure they get pushed through to the proper channels....I'm here to help.....

What's the problem with naming the provider, are you not allowed to say?