Getting use to rubbers again??

This is in absolutely no way seeking BBFS

After a couple of back to back long monogamous relationships I thought of condoms as a thing of the past. However, things have changed and these days they are a must. Be it in hobby, POF or just casual hookups in general.
While in the military I had become quite use to them and could get the work done without much of a issue. Now is a different story and they are like novacane... and god forbit I have a few drinks before hand.. Could be in cardiac arrest before getting the demons out.
You guys have any experience with this? Tips?

and god forbit I have a few drinks before hand. Originally Posted by ttexastt

then don't.

then don't. Originally Posted by Juan Pablo de Marco

Na, you can 12 step by yourself.

Na, you can 12 step by yourself. Originally Posted by ttexastt

Can't you just drink AFTER?

Some of the girls use female condoms. Might be worth a try. And booze is a "relaxative" for your boner-to-be.

I find myself in this same situation now days....dang it!
Ladies, would you like to advise on the female condoms? Never tried one but it sounds awesome.

A good BBBJ. I usually ask if a lady does not mind finishing me off when I feel my heart wanting to bust.

One thing you can do is finish Russian style!!!!

You may wish to try different brands. They don't all fit the same.

I like using condoms. They increase my stamina which allows me to try more thing physically.

Stuff that may work.

1. Put a little water based lubricant inside the tip of the condom before you slide it on. Sometimes that will help with the feeling.

2. Stop masterbating or watching porn....as it may desensitize you to "real" sexual situations and mental and visual stimulants and feelings you gain naturally.

3. See ladies that will allow usage of a female condom. Buy them fresh, keep the reciept and don't tamper with the packaging.

I'm in same boat to OP, wat I do is either stay away from ne thing sexual(which is hard) till appt., n I recently started back doing kegals which has helped a lot to stay in the moment

cool, good advice guys

A good BBBJ. I usually ask if a lady does not mind finishing me off when I feel my heart wanting to bust. Originally Posted by Brot

This is the number one method my gents use when not use to rubbers...a warm, wet mouth can be just as good!

Use duct tape, it will fix anything.

Some of the girls use female condoms. Might be worth a try. Originally Posted by Prolongus

2. Stop masterbating or watching porn....as it may desensitize you to "real" sexual situations and mental and visual stimulants and feelings you gain naturally.

3. See ladies that will allow usage of a female condom. Buy them fresh, keep the reciept and don't tamper with the packaging. Originally Posted by gimme_that

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