But what really gets me EXCITED to meet you and the spark that creates connection is often really simple things...
like talking on the phone, hearing your accent - are you Southern
? Are you Yankee? Californian? (And accents can be very attractive!)
I feel way more connected just by hearing your voice. Your voice has it's own fingerprint, and it's unique to you.
Maybe you can relate, but I really like to feel some sort of connection before meeting, especially the first time.
What I mean by "connection" is feeling I know a little about you:
Where did you grow up?
What do you like to do for fun?
What kind of work do you do?
These are some of the things that make us unique. They tell so much about us and set us apart.
I like to sense that you are excited or looking forward to meeting. It's such a turn-on.
These are real human needs. And call me crazy... I don't think they should they be ignored. In fact, these are things that spark GREAT encounters.
I also love knowing what type of lingerie you like. If you are thinking of the lingerie I'm going to be wearing, you can bet I'm turned on by that!
