when you get or give a massage...what do you prefer to use??
Oil or lotion or nothing at all????? Or do you have something else you prefer??????
Naked women covered in oil.
lol RP babe---you bring the il over babe!!!
Ladies got any fave lubes/oils/lotions???
This is a good thread because I would like to know ladies preferences. Usually when I book appts. reverse massage is something I try to implement to not only break the ice but get her body more limber as well........unless shes running hella late and I'm just horny and want to engage in relations first.
I always ask the lady what they prefer and few have any specific lubrication requirements for massage. Visually and sort of taste wise I like baby oil as it is very manuverable, easily accessible to buy anywhere, and more visually alluring for me to observe from afar.
Some ladies prefer lotions over baby oil and most times it was because the oils were more slick and harder to wash off so to speak. The lotion is good but not as good manuverwise with my hands as baby oil seems to be.
The massage oil I tend to prefer is a ky massage oil that IS NOT warming of any type as they burn sometimes, but they are not always assessible everywhere. Although they say they are 2 in 1 I only use for massage.
I love to get and give massages, I thoroughly enjoy it. I prefer to use a lubircant, but I have no idea what it is or the name of it. I have only used it with one lady as she initiated the usage, you can all just guess who that lady is, not hard to figure out if you have seen any reviews I have written.
I sometimes request it prior to the session because I like it so much. It is an oil that she burns in a candle, so I think it is a mixture of melted wax and some oil or lotion stuff. She scoops it out with a tiny spoon and dumps in to my hand or her hand. It has a great aroma and is smooth, slippery, and silky feeling during the massage. It is very relaxing for me. We use the lotion stuff all over each others bodies to include sexually sensitive areas. The feeling is awesome and the taste is great too!
Also, we have used a lotion or gel squirted from a small bottle. Again I have no idea the name. It is a wonderul sexual stimulator. I really enjoy the two hand downward stroking, when she does the one hand after another with both hands lubed up. Usually we are fondling each other and when she starts the two handed lube downward stroking, I tense up, grind my teeth, toes curl, groans and moans can be heard from my lips and well you can guess the rest.
Alright, I am getting worked up now and nothing booked today, Damn, and Friday is my play day. I guess I have to see her again to get the names of that stuff, lol.
Good topic!! I love to get full body sensual massages and prefer oil.
However, oil does require more of a cleanup, which can only be done properly with shower, which is not always offered!
Then you have to consider bbbj/rimming during massage (which I like to receive at start and then again at end, two pops, you might want to write this down ladies!), which some providers don't want to do once you have oil on you unless it is flavored, which might not be best for massage.
You also need to consider if there is ass play (which I enjoy receiving also), which I am told oil is not the best for, lube is better.
I know it sounds bad, but I usually depend on the lady to know about such things and supply them.
Then you have to consider bbbj/rimming during massage (which I like to receive at start and then again at end, two pops, you might want to write this down ladies!), which some providers don't want to do once you have oil on you unless it is flavored, which might not be best for massage.
Originally Posted by bigclitluvr
2 pops and a massage with rimming?
I like how you roll.
I love to both get and give massages. One provider who got a massage from me on one of our first visits now demands one every time. I guess I did a good job. Here's a recipe for a massage lube that I use. It's based on glycerin, so it absorbs into the skin, cleans up with water if you don't want to wait. It's condom safe, and it's OK to use on a surface that might get licked or sucked soon after. You can add any scents or flavoring extracts you want, and I used coconut in my last batch.
Ingredients
- 1/4 cup glycerine (Found in most drug stores)
- 1/4 tsp honey
- 1/4 tsp vanilla extract
- 1/4 tsp flavoring or your choice (be careful with mint and cinnamon flavorings and where you put them)
Directions
- Mix all ingredients well, add flavoring of your choice to taste and bottle.
- This is a water-soluble lotion that heats up when you blow on it, and is latex-friendly.
- It is an edible massage oil.
- Suggested flavorings
- Almond, Apricot, Butterscotch, Chocolate, Mint Chocolate, Cinnamon
- Vanilla, Coconut, Coffee, Grape, Hazelnut, Maple, Orange
Hey thanks for the recipe Trekker! I think I may just try that!
Right now I use a Hemp based oil with a light scent called Skinny Dippin'. It's nice and smooth and a little bit goes a long way!
Definitely gonna have to give that recipe a try also. I wonder if one of those potpourri simmer pot things would heat the oil up enough but not too hot?
The Neutrogena Sesame Oil - so far it's my favorite. Like Dallas said it goes on plenty slick but absorbs in. Very non-greasy. Not real tasty but not ick. Lubes and flavored lubes are barfomatic for me. Pass on all the flavored oils. I've had I don't know how many gifts of coconut oil. I hate coconut.
Love giving and receiving massage. Guess it's part of the skin freakishness.
Please be careful with the po... I burnt the hell outa a client and myself lol!! GRAPESEED! SAFE And wonderful for the skin..smells awesome too....
Yeah, cinnamon or any mint flavorings can be too much for the surface of a vulva. I use the coconut because it's benign there and it smells like suntan oil and reminds me of all the glistening, tan hotties I fantasized about on the beach trips in my youth.
... I wonder if one of those potpourri simmer pot things would heat the oil up enough but not too hot?...
Originally Posted by babee
I use a bowl of hot water to warm the lube up to body temperature, no hotter. The glycerin is neutral going on but gives a warming sensation if you blow on it. You really have a lot of control over how it's going to feel on the person.
thanks for the replies! I am gonna try that recipe!!
I love massaging any nekkid body.....the feet especially{I am trying to learn reflexology}