What Keeps You Coming Back?

This question is directed toward the guys. When you meet an ASP for the first time what qualities and characteristics of the appointment makes you want to go back for more? Is it an awesome attitude? Is a great sex that makes you want to go back? Is it one specific act that the lady does that curl your toes? Is it a genuine connection? What makes you want to go back for more and more and more and more of the same lady?

1) Her looks - is her body firm and pleasing to the eye and to the touch?

2) Her attitude - is she welcoming and friendly? Did she get clean and presentable for our meeting? Does she rush things along, or let me take my time and enjoy the experience?

3) Performance - does she have skill's or IOP, and, can she handle me?

4) TCB - does she return calls, texts, emails? Is she there when she promises?

5) Incall - is her incall fairly clean and comfortable and safe?

I have a very specific description of my expectations given in my 411 profile. If she reads it, says she is OK with it, and then delivers, I be back over and over until she's tired of me.

What keeps me cuming back are these qualities;

She must be attractive
She must have a great personality
She needs to have that wicked smile with evil in her eyes
She makes me feel like we are the only ones left on earth
She must be sensual and kinky
She makes me feel special
She is enjoying being there with me and it shows
She is accomodating
She makes me feel like she knows what makes me tick better than I do
She can make me cum more times than I can keep track of
She is always making things different and something new
She makes me wish I had more time to spend with her
Last but not least her name must be Ms Athena

This question is directed toward the guys. When you meet an ASP for the first time what qualities and characteristics of the appointment makes you want to go back for more? Is it an awesome attitude? Is a great sex that makes you want to go back? Is it one specific act that the lady does that curl your toes? Is it a genuine connection? What makes you want to go back for more and more and more and more of the same lady?
Originally Posted by Naughty Destiny

Yes all of the above.

I hope it is ok to answer

my guys say it is "my attitude"........but i think it is because of my ass...lol!

ATA= Attitude Tits Ass

This is a well-timed question. Today I booked a session with a lady who "retired" a few months ago. She is now back with her original agency for a "short" return engagement. I have seen the lady four times previously and twice she put me on her do not see list for comments I made on another board, comments that were really innocuous and which had nothing to do with her. Unfortunately she has board "rabbit ears" and I was sent to Purgatory, but now I am out.

To be honest, the sex with her is really good, but I've seen ladies with larger libidos and more venturesome menus.

So why did I book with her? Simple: she is one of the most beautiful providers I have seen and I know that my opportunities to bed such beauties is limited with every day that passes.

So I am going to treat her like a living goddess and savor every second with her because she is just that hot.

Now if you asked me about other ladies, my answer would be very different. Each lady has her own set to charms and attributes that are attractive, but since I am flush with my luck in booking this session, this is the one you are going to hear about. I may be shallow, but I have enough sense to admit it, and I am going to have so much fun.

Plain and simple if she is still in my mind after a couple of days after I see her then I will repeat

I hope it is ok to answer

my guys say it is "my attitude"........but i think it is because of my ass...lol! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Dallas your ass IS awesome! But its you I love! ALL of you!

As for the OP, it's mostly the connection and the quality of the physical encounter. It is absolutely amazing how varied an encounter may be. Even kissing, every woman is totally different in her style.

And no matter how "talented" she is, if our personalities don't work, then no repeat. And that goes both ways. I have met several ladies I could tell preferred that I did not repeat and so I have not.

1) Her looks - is her body firm and pleasing to the eye and to the touch?

2) Her attitude - is she welcoming and friendly? Did she get clean and presentable for our meeting? Does she rush things along, or let me take my time and enjoy the experience?

3) Performance - does she have skill's or IOP, and, can she handle me?

4) TCB - does she return calls, texts, emails? Is she there when she promises?

5) Incall - is her incall fairly clean and comfortable and safe? Originally Posted by Rogue_Gent

I would have to agree with Rogue plus...
Are her pictures accurate ?
Attitude, skills, and the way she conducts business is what keeps me coming for more.

1. Looks is one of the most important aspects of being in the hobby. She's gotta be attractive.
2. Menu is another consideration. Will she do what I want to do?
3. Personality. Is she real or is it fake or a game to her?
4. Connection. Did she genuinely have a good time with me?

Even though it has been a few years since I saw anyone (trying to get back into the hobby) my criteria was first and foremost about the services that I wanted, second was price, and third and probably tied with the first as far as important was comfortableness and also I want to be able to trust my provider. Also I once saw a provider before anything happened she gave me a long list of what not to do and if I did something she didn't like she was gonna punch me in the face. Really enjoyed that half hour!

Looks are entirely subjective but yes looks first
Mesmerizing eyes with the right amount of eye makeup and I LOVE false eye lashes so eyes are very very important to me
A Toned body but this again is very subjective and can vary
Appears to love sex and will do what I want her do to make things very special and is totally GFE- an insatiable nympho type
A great personality- very friendly and cuddly and makes you feel like she is truly your girlfriend for the time of the session

where it is not a service.