For New Guys: How to Backpage Hobby - Quick Tips

1) Get a trac-fone, google-voice or similar app. NEVER use your real phone number.

2) If an escort requires personal info (name, work) to screen you, don't see her. It's her loss, not yours. Never have a girl come to your actual residence.

3) Google the escort's phone number and tineye.com/google image search her photos. Most ads use fake photos. Some girls will still look good, others not so much.

4) Always call the first time. You can tell a lot from her voice. Be friendly and professional on the phone. Ask only: are you available, your rates by time, do you have incall/outcall. NEVER discuss sex over the phone.

5) Leave behind everything other than the exact cash you plan to spend and your car key. Don't bring your phone, wallet, watch, house keys, jewelry, business cards, id. Leave it all in your car.

6) When she opens the door, walk in, make sure she's alone, see if anyone is in the bathroom (other girls in there is ok), if all clear, immediately place the cash on the dresser.

7) NEVER discuss sex for money. She will get naked on her own. She will start a bj on her own. You never discuss what the money is for.

8) When the fun is over, get dressed and leave once your time is up. Don't loiter. If you pay upfront you don't need to tip.

If you follow these simple tips, you'll have a majority of decent times in the hobby.

Good advice. I would just add that with most bp girls with fake pics you always have the option of using the big head and leaving if her appearance leaves your little guy shriveled from disgust.

Although I am not ashamed to admit my little head almost always wins out and has led me to some appointments with gals that I would never consider if she used real pics.....some times worked out better than others...

Good advice but, I think many of these items can also pertain to verified providers. Nightmares happen whether they are BP girls or VPs on this or another site.
Its always good when people are getting along, it turns bad when one gets too attached and wants to walk to avoid a catastrophe.

1) Get a trac-fone, google-voice or similar app. NEVER use your real phone number.

2) If an escort requires personal info (name, work) to screen you, don't see her. It's her loss, not yours. Never have a girl come to your actual residence.

3) Google the escort's phone number and tineye.com/google image search her photos. Most ads use fake photos. Some girls will still look good, others not so much.

4) Always call the first time. You can tell a lot from her voice. Be friendly and professional on the phone. Ask only: are you available, your rates by time, do you have incall/outcall. NEVER discuss sex over the phone.

5) Leave behind everything other than the exact cash you plan to spend and your car key. Don't bring your phone, wallet, watch, house keys, jewelry, business cards, id. Leave it all in your car.

6) When she opens the door, walk in, make sure she's alone, see if anyone is in the bathroom (other girls in there is ok), if all clear, immediately place the cash on the dresser.

7) NEVER discuss sex for money. She will get naked on her own. She will start a bj on her own. You never discuss what the money is for.

8) When the fun is over, get dressed and leave once your time is up. Don't loiter. If you pay upfront you don't need to tip.

If you follow these simple tips, you'll have a majority of decent times in the hobby. Originally Posted by guest7000

I agree with all except # 6. Unless I have set up a duo, I never want anyone else in the room or the bathroom. It is way to easy for the one in the bath to open the door and let a thug, handler or anyone else in and try to RIP you off !!!! Stay safe and play safe.

Regarding Backpage girls, 19 of 20 girls are with somebody. I rather know the somebody is patiently waiting in the bathroom than lurking in the halls or parking lot. I've seen countless Backpage girls (my forte), and never has a bathroom girl been shady. I've seen bathrooms full of girls, and they all just play on their phones patiently waiting for the session to end. If you acknowledge you know they're there, there are no surprises. It's their job, and they respect the job. There's no point robbing you because they already have the money. I've never had any trouble with Backpage girls following my above safety measures. Also, I should add another rule:

9) Don't see any unreviewed brown girls (AA or Hispanic). All bets are off if you do. Your probability of encountering pimps, thugs, and trannys goes up exponentially.

Regarding Backpage girls, 19 of 20 girls are with somebody. I rather know the somebody is patiently waiting in the bathroom than lurking in the halls or parking lot. I've seen countless Backpage girls (my forte), and never has a bathroom girl been shady. I've seen bathrooms full of girls, and they all just play on their phones patiently waiting for the session to end. If you acknowledge you know they're there, there are no surprises. It's their job, and they respect the job. There's no point robbing you because they already have the money. I've never had any trouble with Backpage girls following my above safety measures. Also, I should add another rule:

9) Don't see any unreviewed brown girls (AA or Hispanic). All bets are off if you do. Your probability of encountering pimps, thugs, and trannys goes up exponentially. Originally Posted by guest7000

I Agree with 7000 on that. I have had countless chicks hanging in the bathroom and never once had an issue with somebody going for the door. AND!!!! I must add...that sometimes it can be a bonus. If she is there...she is 'working' and you can make a deal for the double OR you can at least 'lay eyes on her' for next time or reference purposes. It can be a negative for some guys but I've always found it to be neutral or positive.
As for the 'AA' providers....I don't see them as a habit, ESPECIALLY from BP. Did more than my share years ago and every time it was a 'bad' experience. Which is too bad because I love them all- big or small, black or white, red heads and dead heads, Asian or Cajun...I'm a freaky connoisseur of the female form!

Peace
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Regarding Backpage girls, 19 of 20 girls are with somebody. I rather know the somebody is patiently waiting in the bathroom than lurking in the halls or parking lot. I've seen countless Backpage girls (my forte), and never has a bathroom girl been shady. I've seen bathrooms full of girls, and they all just play on their phones patiently waiting for the session to end. If you acknowledge you know they're there, there are no surprises. It's their job, and they respect the job. There's no point robbing you because they already have the money. I've never had any trouble with Backpage girls following my above safety measures. Also, I should add another rule:

9) Don't see any unreviewed brown girls (AA or Hispanic). All bets are off if you do. Your probability of encountering pimps, thugs, and trannys goes up exponentially. Originally Posted by guest7000

You guys need a banned members repository... finally.