O.P.,
Nothing out of sorts with your perspective.
But, consider that why many hobbiests play around is that after a few years or more, the home boudoir is kind of ... shall we say not that exciting?
So "outside" activities spice up a gent's pleasures.
Similarly, spending too much time with an ATF can become equally akin to the home playpen.
ijs
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