Is Bondage a common Request

I seen some bondage porn on the internet and the woman had a gag ball in her mouth,,,was wondering how she gives a safe word.

The hobbyist is using rope to bind the woman and what safeguards does the woman have to get out of a bad situation?,,,

Some use a small bell or rattle to drop if the safe word can't be spoken, or something like three shakes of the head no,with some ball gags you can still speak so I'm,sure that's the type a provider would use,
As far as getting out of the rope, with the type of bondage you have pictured it would be almost impossible if tied correctly, but these types of role play and the whole bdsm culture need some sort of trust before the games begin. In my fetish or bdsm,sessions I use cuffs only,that have Velcro straps that can be released by the wearer.

I hate to imagine what some of this women go through to make money for porn,,,
one porn star spoke about the making of donkey punch, a punch to the back of the head but the dude was hitting her everywhere. I couldn't watch,,,women don't have enough protection in the sex industry.

Check out vvideos in the "Disgraced" genre. These are bondage sex videos in a very controlled setting.

http://www.sunporno.com/videos/10249...e-for-her-twat

Light bondage is erotic but the straps and clothes pins and straight up torture is what I don't understand,,, SB wants me to get her some gear and this is new territory.
she watched 50 shades of Gray,,,ji ji ji.

It's not about the pain, it's supposed to be about the control.
At least 50 shades style....

Although, some, love the pain.

I too, don't get it.

I like the idea of the woman being in control.

It's not about the pain, it's supposed to be about the control.
At least 50 shades style....

Although, some, love the pain.

I too, don't get it. Originally Posted by FoxyNC

Indeed, bondage and S&M, while often inclusive, are 2 distinctly different fetishes. Most bondage aficionados do not relish pain, nor is the the submissive/dominant dynamic always of vital importance. Bondage rope work can be an intricate art form in itself, but the subject has to trust the artist, just as a model in a portrait trusts a painter (or photographer) to render a compelling image, and the visual can be quite stimulating to some. One of the objectives is to not leave a single mark, bruise, or burn upon the body with the restraints. Style is highly interpretive.

Although I don't really care for this type of play as a serious pursuit, nothing wrong with a light excursion, as long as boundaries are well established. I'm probably the most vanilla of GFEs, but I get requests. My 4-poster antique iron bed lends itself naturally to such fantasies, although I am NOT the one being bound.

she controls my wallet,,,ji ji ji

Light bondage is erotic but the straps and clothes pins and straight up torture is what I don't understand,,, Originally Posted by Lorde

Pleasure and Pain use the same nerve to signal the brain...
It all depends on your pain/pleasure threshold...

I would get pleasure face fucking the hell out of one escort that can't shut up,,,,ji ji ji
The fiesty girls seem to do the most kinky request,,,

Bondage requires an EXTREME level of trust. It's not my thing but I'm sure you will find someone to show you the ropes

I don't get it.

It would take you about 30 min just to get the ropes situated and tied
correctly, then what?? You could look and say......yeah, you're all tied up now
.....guess I'll go make a sandwich.