A couple questions from a Newbie

Hey Everyone, new to the site and somewhat new to the hobbie.

Hopefully I posted this thread in the correct forum, first post so take it easy on me please.

Im in a place in my life where I would like to pursue the hobby. With that being said also in that place is I don't want the whole enchallada. The most obvious reasons LE, STD's, etc.
What I'm looking for is like a stripper/GFE/FBM with HE via CBJ or HJ with mutal touching. I would still be happy with one, both, or all. Finding that cocktail has proven to be hard to find safely.
I've come to the conclusion that I need to stay away from BP.
Wasted some money visiting a OMP and a message therapy place. Great message, no HE. They looked shady enough.
Looking at BP though it has brought up some questions of my own.
-The FBM providers that do post a pic that I would like to visit post things like "Not Escort". I've got an idea what that means but what does that really mean? That's confusing.
- Also I've noticed alot of the escorts on BP wear 2 hats. They post in the Body Rubs as well. I would prefer to visit someone with a low profile.

-I want a Stripper/GFE/FBM experience, not neccesaryally all, without putting the car in the garage. How do I discuss what I want withou being explicit?
- It looks like finding an escort is easy, How or where do I find along the lines of what I want-SAFELY?

Any comments or suggestions would be appreciated
I hope I'm not being to picky,lol.
Thanks

Hey Everyone, new to the site and somewhat new to the hobbie.

Hopefully I posted this thread in the correct forum, first post so take it easy on me please.

Im in a place in my life where I would like to pursue the hobby. With that being said also in that place is I don't want the whole enchallada. The most obvious reasons LE, STD's, etc.
What I'm looking for is like a stripper/GFE/FBM with HE via CBJ or HJ with mutal touching. I would still be happy with one, both, or all. Finding that cocktail has proven to be hard to find safely. Originally Posted by Bob Breck

Dude, Bob, first, I have to ask. What the heck is HE? Is that an acc for HEAD EXPLOSION? Dayum!!! I'd be happy too!!! Good luck in your search. That's one helluva BJ or HJ...Dayum!

The Search tab is your friend ... get acquainted.

BB looks like you might want to go the AMP route.

I would say create a P411 account, and on your account profile section write something similar to what you have just written. Then when booking an appointment with a lady just have her take a look at your profile, should be self explanatory enough for her to realise the type of experience you desire...

I would say create a P411 account, and on your account profile section write something similar to what you have just written. Then when booking an appointment with a lady just have her take a look at your profile, should be self explanatory enough for her to realise the type of experience you desire... Originally Posted by Valerie

Very smart advice. Make sure they definitely look at your profile. You must also read their bios. You will find what you want.

Thanks Everyone, I'll see if I can get that Search function to work for me. There's just so many to choose from. P411 might have to be the route to go, I've tried to contact providers through other hobbyist sites private message but never got any responses.

You are right. Stay away from BP unless you can verify the girl via another site or method. I'm sure there are fine providers on BP, but the risk is not worth it. Also, stay away from body rubs in general. Usually, that is a gateway ploy to get a guy interested (i.e. someone like you who is tentative). These body rubs are nothing more than a front for upsell. She has you naked and making you feel good then bam she hits you with the "for another 50, I'll suck your cock." or "for another 100, I'll fuck you". Stay away. Go with what Val said, or just start communicating with any of the fine providers on here. Most would be more than willing to accommodate you needs.

Hey Everyone, new to the site and somewhat new to the hobbie.

Hopefully I posted this thread in the correct forum, first post so take it easy on me please.

Im in a place in my life where I would like to pursue the hobby. With that being said also in that place is I don't want the whole enchallada. The most obvious reasons LE, STD's, etc.
What I'm looking for is like a stripper/GFE/FBM with HE via CBJ or HJ with mutal touching. I would still be happy with one, both, or all. Finding that cocktail has proven to be hard to find safely.
I've come to the conclusion that I need to stay away from BP.
Wasted some money visiting a OMP and a message therapy place. Great message, no HE. They looked shady enough.
Looking at BP though it has brought up some questions of my own.
-The FBM providers that do post a pic that I would like to visit post things like "Not Escort". I've got an idea what that means but what does that really mean? That's confusing.
- Also I've noticed alot of the escorts on BP wear 2 hats. They post in the Body Rubs as well. I would prefer to visit someone with a low profile.

-I want a Stripper/GFE/FBM experience, not neccesaryally all, without putting the car in the garage. How do I discuss what I want withou being explicit?
- It looks like finding an escort is easy, How or where do I find along the lines of what I want-SAFELY?

Any comments or suggestions would be appreciated
I hope I'm not being to picky,lol.
Thanks Originally Posted by Bob Breck

Bob, you say you are looking for Stripper/GFE/FBM with CBJ or HJ ending. GFE generally implies FS, which it sounds like is not what you are looking for. Sounds like you are looking for FBSM with L1 or L2 ending. Post a query in the ISO forum for your local area, you'll probably get some volunteers and suggestions. Then do your research - read reviews. You should be able to find what you are after.

To find a stripper go to where the strippers are just don't pay in advance. Strip Clubs can eat a man alive. WTF is HE, and you want CBJ?

WTF is HE? Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Happy ending per urban dictionary. Never heard of it either.

So a SHE would be a semi happy ending?

So a SHE would be a semi happy ending? Originally Posted by pyramider

Or a super happy ending. Think positive.

I would say create a P411 account, and on your account profile section write something similar to what you have just written. Then when booking an appointment with a lady just have her take a look at your profile, should be self explanatory enough for her to realise the type of experience you desire... Originally Posted by Valerie

Valerie the Cunt is 100% correct! Good job girl!
The safest way to get what you seek,,,