Being too sensitive down there...

There were moments with my last provider that were wonderful and could have proceeded, but I had to make her stop because I was overly sensitive at the tip. Example the way she was giving me a hj at the very tip was way much. And it's had me wondering if there is something wrong with me? Or is it like this with you ladies where your clit can be overly sensitive? Is this one of those moments that is so hot that it's painful and you should bare with it?

This doesn't happened all the time, just some moments, depending on how a provider is handling me or going down on me, at the very edge. I feel like I'm being a wuss when it happens, please help me to understand.

it's normal as you are cumming, and immediately after, to have heightened sensitivity.. but you get it before then, right?

it is not wussy, you may just be overly-sensitive.. I need the lady to slow at ejaculation, or it can turn from pleasure to pain quickly.. one reason why I limit handjobs (other is I'd rather suck and fuck), most ladies don't slow down at the finish, and some even speed up!

We are as sensitive as we are. Some are more so than others, and while factors may affect us in that area, not the same thing will affect one as another and the same thing may not have the same effect twice. I've read statements on this site, that you can tell if a lady is having more or less sex by her sensitivity. I have to call BS on that little piece of info, because one size does not in fact, fit all. We are unique and respond differently. What would the world be like if we actually were all the same? Yikes

I am way too sensitive to allow direct contact to my clitoris after a clitoral O. I need time to cool down, in order to ensure I don't have a "knee jerk" reaction, because it is kinda painful and makes me jump. Is that too sensitive? I don't think so, it's normal for me.

I've had this happen before but it was because I took too much Viagra. I know the right dose now.

But is it something I can overcome? What would happen if I bared it in the first half of a session, would it really hurt to a degree that it would ruin the rest of the session like I'd be too sore and would not be able to continue to perform with a Provider?

But is it something I can overcome? What would happen if I bared it in the first half of a session, would it really hurt to a degree that it would ruin the rest of the session like I'd be too sore and would not be able to continue to perform with a Provider? Originally Posted by Gemineye

Hope not, but I suppose you could try it and let us know one way or the other?

Don't they make some sort of de-sensitizing gel that is supposed to make it last longer? Maybe give that a try?