When is it time to stop being a provider?

Recently I was at a birthday party in SF and ran into an escort my uncle visited over the years. She was at various events with him and occasionally at the same event that my aunt (his wife) was at. My uncle had to stop seeing her 10 years ago because of health issues. I ran into this escort recently and we chatted for a bit. I asked is she still escorting and she yes. She’s been an escort for 31 years and still has a handful of clients! She is probably in her 60s and very well kept courtesy of plastic surgery. Damn, 31 years? She is not pimped or anything like that. She voluntarily stays an escort by choice. As a provider, when is it time to stop and exit this hobby? I’m sure the hobby is always a crutch for some fast cash, but when is time to go and stay gone? I doubt many providers enter this hobby with the goal of getting a lifetime achievement award.

Most stop selling when clients stop buying.

Britain's oldest provider is 85. She's still busy at 250hr

1.When they're snappy,crabby with everyone around them.

2. When their fake fraud being nice but really throwing childish shade

3. When they're so dang busy worried about what other providers "provide" instead of concentrating on their own self.

4. Jaded towards men and bad mouth them

5. NCNS & BS Mind Games

6. When they pretend to like a certain activity, but really don't, just do it just to rake in cash.

7. When they turn into Keyboard Bullies

8.mmmmm????
I'll think of more LOL

Kudos to your friend for being a woman of a particular age but still making men happy.

You either got it in this industry or ya don't

1.When they're snappy,crabby with everyone around them.

2. When their fake fraud being nice but really throwing childish shade

3. When they're so dang busy worried about what other providers "provide" instead of concentrating on their own self.

4. Jaded towards men and bad mouth them

5. NCNS & BS Mind Games

6. When they pretend to like a certain activity, but really don't, just do it just to rake in cash.

7. When they turn into Keyboard Bullies

8.mmmmm????
I'll think of more LOL

Kudos to your friend for being a woman of a particular age but still making men happy.

You either got it in this industry or ya don't Originally Posted by Italia DiBella

^^^My Girl!!!

1.When they're snappy,crabby with everyone around them.

2. When their fake fraud being nice but really throwing childish shade

3. When they're so dang busy worried about what other providers "provide" instead of concentrating on their own self.

4. Jaded towards men and bad mouth them

5. NCNS & BS Mind Games

6. When they pretend to like a certain activity, but really don't, just do it just to rake in cash.

7. When they turn into Keyboard Bullies

8.mmmmm????
I'll think of more LOL

Kudos to your friend for being a woman of a particular age but still making men happy.

You either got it in this industry or ya don't Originally Posted by Italia DiBella

Based on this list and threads on this board there should be quite a few ladies here that should have been in retirement stage years ago...

1.When they're snappy,crabby with everyone around them.

2. When their fake fraud being nice but really throwing childish shade

3. When they're so dang busy worried about what other providers "provide" instead of concentrating on their own self.

4. Jaded towards men and bad mouth them

5. NCNS & BS Mind Games

6. When they pretend to like a certain activity, but really don't, just do it just to rake in cash.

7. When they turn into Keyboard Bullies

8.mmmmm????
I'll think of more LOL

Kudos to your friend for being a woman of a particular age but still making men happy.

You either got it in this industry or ya don't Originally Posted by Italia DiBella

Absolutely love this! 100% true.

Based on this list and threads on this board there should be quite a few ladies here that should have been in retirement stage years ago... Originally Posted by Richard Fitzwell

Ha! yupp

I am in total agreement with Italia.

If/when she no does not honestly enjoy what she is doing. That's when she should not be a provider.

Im an "old chick" who luvs what she does and usually who she does...no plans to quit YET..lol

Thete are several gals over 50 in Austin..and a couple over 60 in Dallas!!!

I started out in Spring 2010, in my 40's.

Had always worked legit jobs in healthcare prior.

I must admit, I was shocked anyone would be interested in a woman my age back then. Now I realize how fortunate I am to look as nice as I do at my age. I have always been a vegetarian, never smoked cigarettes and never drank alcohol. I do not even drink soda pop and I avoid processed foods. My health has always been excellent so even though I will never be a pin up, I have always been pretty.

I think I will stop doing this when I stop getting great calls from great guys who don't want to see me anymore. I already am working on a new career, something that will not involve looks or illicit activities.

Funny thing about this business from my perspective as someone who started out much later in life: It can be extremely empowering for a woman to learn how to choose which inquiries to take. I am constantly surprised how very nice the men are who contact and visit me. The longer I do this, the more I like and admire men. It has increased my confidence and my empathy like nothing before. I am so grateful for my career choice and the happiness it has brought me.

When the cooter won't snap shut.

When the cooter won't snap shut. Originally Posted by dearhunter

Now that's a damn reason to retire right there

Im an "old chick" who luvs what she does and usually who she does...no plans to quit YET..lol

Thete are several gals over 50 in Austin..and a couple over 60 in Dallas!!! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Pfft no reason you're awesome!!!

When the chihuahuas tell me to.

(Selfish puppy pimps wag over what the money buys them!)

Like cinderbella, I stated providing late, age 47, and am now 58. I live way out in the deep, dark, spooky woods as a "semi-retired" tart caring for a herd of wee woofs and a lush Garden of Eaten. It's been tons o' fun, fulfilled many of my travel dreams, and plying the profession paid off the Irish Chihuahua Refuge years early, so I'm grateful for what the Hobby has provided me! I don't get into town as frequently as I used to, but I continue to enjoy my playtime and saucy socializing. Evidently some gents still get a kick out of my carnal companionship. Since I'm in a position to be choosy and very low-volume thanks to a core handful of longtime loyal regulars I'm so appreciative of, I'm a lucky lassie, indeed!

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