Extended Stay places... No Thanks!

A couple times within the last year I have visited an incall at an extended stay. The rooms were not so bad, but the stench in the hallways getting there..unbelievable. I'm sure there may be some extended stays that are not like this, but if I think that's where an incall might be, I will absolutely avoid!

I agree...a while back i had two providers that wouldnt give me exact locations til i got to the area which seems to be common in some...i got to the area and they gave me the location and it was either an extended stay run down place or some sleazy motel. I refused to go thru bc i wasnt comfortable with the place...they were upset and threatened to NCNS me but i stand by that decision. You have to be comfortable with the place or your not going to be comfortable during the session in my opinion.

AGREE!!!!
I never use extended stay unless it is an upscale one like a residence inn ..... I prefer 3 or 4 star hotels....your incall "SPEAKS VOLUME FOR YOUR CHARACTER"!!!

I admit...I have used the extended stay and the hallways always reek of smoke! The only way I will use them is if i only have 1 visit that day and my gent doesn't mind = )

I pushed myself through a similar situation and regretted it. I was out in no time. Stick with your intuition. I agree DallasRain it does speak volumes.

If a gent doesn't care for Extended Stay motels, maybe the prudent thing to do would be expressing that in your initial contact. You can politely explain you prefer not to visit a lady at an extended stay property, and hopefully you're "intended" will be honest about her incall location.

Then, if you show up and choose not to proceed, the NCNS argument will be somewhat nullified...

Pretty simple, really.

There are some nice extended stay hotels, cost a nice pretty penny too, maybe its the "our hallways do not reek of smoke" cost. So worth it though.

Maybe she was down on her luck and needed somewhere to go fast.
Or maybe she was just cheap.

So if your ATF was staying at an less then stellar extended stay, would you not go see her?

I would not ever just NCNS a gal, because she is at a extended stay, how do you know she is at cheap one or a pretty nice one minus the smoke smell. I would however tell her, thanks for your time and I'll pass.

I do understand your concerns :-). Its your time, your session, your money, do what makes you feel comfortable.

Lisa

This is one of the reasons I ditched my former incall. I managed to "make it my own"-- but I was concerned about the hallways and the environment around me-- so I decided far better to bounce from hotel to hotel than utilize another Extended Stay. An apartment incall is not the best route for me, since I sometimes take weeks, even months off at a time due to my studies.

I have stayed in extended stay hotels without ever having any problems, but then again I make sure the one I go to is discreet and has some sort of private parking.

I myself just don't feel the need to spend 100+ on an incall, I am sorry but I just don't.

My incalls vary like December's..... I love the option of moving around for any reason I feel like LOL....

Muah guys and gents,
Cayla James

I apologize if I "offended" anyone....There is nothing bad about "having or choosing" to use an extended stay if that is what you have to use.. just make sure it is a decent one and is in a safe,convenient area.



I will say that there are some really nice extended stay hotels in certain areas{like more upscale areas of towns}

I have stayed at extended stay type hotels, but the doors must be on the outside. I agree that when the doors are on the inside, they do tend to be more run down and smelly!!

i stayed at a staybridge suites once by the tollway and it was really nice guess it just depends on the hotel

Bingo!

I apologize if I "offended" anyone....There is nothing bad about "having or choosing" to use an extended stay if that is what you have to use.. just make sure it is a decent one and is in a safe,convenient area.





I will say that there are some really nice extended stay hotels in certain areas{like more upscale areas of towns} Originally Posted by DallasRain

I find it the opposite, I really dislike doors on the outsides, reminds of the motel 6 for some reason.

There are extended stay hotels that do not allow smoking, or stinking smells, riff raff.

I have stayed at extended stay type hotels, but the doors must be on the outside. I agree that when the doors are on the inside, they do tend to be more run down and smelly!! Originally Posted by sterlingbanxxx

Exactly

i stayed at a staybridge suites once by the tollway and it was really nice guess it just depends on the hotel Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

That one at Beltline and Marsh is disgusting.

I do think your incall does say volumes about you. So if it's an extended stay that is in bad shape and yet you still decide to use it as in-call when there are options OH-BOY